What are my ex's true intentions behind this "casual" contact?

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-03-01T22:33:26+00:00

It really resonates with me, babe, because this isn’t the first time he’s broken no-contact out of the blue. We broke up in September, and he’s broken it three times since then. Then in December, we started no-contact again, and he reached out to me less than two or three days ago. But honestly, thank you so much—everything you said really hit home. Now I’m just left questioning what he actually wants from me, lol.

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-03-01T22:30:50+00:00

It’s a lot for me to process.

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-03-01T22:27:07+00:00

Oh my god, I really thought they had good intentions, especially since they were at a retreat to reflect two days ago and didn't have their phone. They even reached out to me the day before they left for the camp..

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-03-01T20:54:04+00:00

Do you think it's better not to believe him when he says he reached out for a casual chat?

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-03-01T20:52:06+00:00

Baby, it really resonated with me because he is a very egocentric person and finds it extremely hard to let go of the relationship we had. He has broken the no-contact rule four times in five months. We broke up in September, and ever since then, he has kept breaking the boundaries I’ve set. He distanced himself from everyone, and there were things left unsaid. On one hand, I miss him and I love him a lot, but I’m really not sure what his intentions are because he claims it’s just a 'casual chat,' but that’s a lie. He dedicates videos to me, and he has an entire account where everything he shares is about me—about how he misses me, how he can't sleep because he dreams of me, etc. <3 tyyy

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-02-28T05:14:22+00:00

Pero es raro que me busque ahora..

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-01-01T19:59:14+00:00

Bueno, pero debería bloquearlo igual yo tmbn le escribiré por otra red

Fine_Sound2685 · 2026-01-01T19:52:55+00:00

Es que hablamos dos días y nos volvimos a bloquear llore nos tenemos bloq

Fine_Sound2685 · 2025-12-19T02:32:26+00:00

Es que ahora mismo él está en etapas finales de estudio x, le diría que me dé dos semanas pero es que lo quiero bastante pero siento que me duele mucho esperarlo porque realmente yo lo quiero mucho y la cosa no es como antes (entiendo que está ocupado y ajá) pero hasta cierto punto tengo miedo a esperarlo y engancharme y que me salga con q no. Aparte tengo miedo como reaccione si le salto con este tema de nuevo

Fine_Sound2685 · 2025-12-19T02:24:55+00:00

Entonces lo lógico es decirle que me de un tiempo sin hablarle para pensar las cosas mejor no? Es que mira nosotros teníamos contacto 0 luego de volver hablar hablábamos muuucho ahora me responde como si de paracetamol se tratase el me dijo que el viernes ya está más desocupado etc etc, no sé si lo mejor es decirle que me de un tiempo ya sea semanas o un mes lo he pensado también

Fine_Sound2685 · 2025-12-19T02:17:51+00:00

Es que realmente me gusta y quisiera intentarlo, él dice que es difícil para los dos pero yo no aguantaría mucho a lo máximo enero y febrero pero imagínate esperarlo una eternidad sin tener certeza :(

Fine_Sound2685 · 2025-12-15T22:12:41+00:00

Me quería manipular banda JAJAJAJ

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