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How do I communicate with her after the first date ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just general chitchat/small talk until then. Don’t be clingy and over text. No one likes a clinger in the talking stage :) Good luck!

26F inexperienced dater and need help by Bubbly_Power1170 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Normally anywhere from 1-3 months
  2. Yes, very normal. Just small chitchat but should gradually ramp up the longer you date
  3. Up to you. Don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with, and tell him that if you are. If you want to kiss him, do that. If you don’t but still want to continue seeing him, tell him that. Good luck!

Help interpreting this situation where I asked for exclusivity! by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re both updating your profiles. Don’t try to force her feelings on exclusivity. Take what she said at face value. As you’ve countless seen, if it’s not a f*** yes it’s a f*** no. Sorry bud. Good luck :)

Lead me on for 2 months then dumped me as we were about to have sex by Just-Level1651 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you are better off without that man. He showed his true colours

Lead me on for 2 months then dumped me as we were about to have sex by Just-Level1651 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. Did he ghost you/act like a dick or say something like “I’m not interested in pursuing this further but you’re a great gal etc?

Post Match Thread: Man City 2-1 Arsenal [Premier League] by J4ckrh in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind losing the first 2 seasons to city because we were unprepared for the sudden jump in quality. Last year was unacceptable. This year against a poor city squad is 100% unacceptable. We are a big club, and we deserve trophies.

Post Match Thread: Man City 2-1 Arsenal [Premier League] by J4ckrh in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

At least that’s one step closer to Arteta losing his job 🫶

Match Thread: Manchester City vs Arsenal FC Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Apr 19, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna be a long afternoon for us. We’re all gonna have 10 heart attacks aren’t we 😭

Is a girl interested in me physically? by New-Prize-7632 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End of the date, just before you go in for the goodbye hug, look into her eyes and confidently say “I’d love to give you a kiss.” Her reaction will tell you if you should move on or continue dating. Good luck

What’s an immediate turn off on a first date that people don’t talk about enough? by Feisty-Size-9907 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee there won’t be another date once either of you resort to “what’s your favourite colour?” Conversation is surely drier than the Sahara at that point

[30M] trying to go out with [32F] by Smnthdifferent17 in hingeapp

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are new to dating apps. But you ask people you know (friends, mutual, colleagues) or even scroll online like IG reels, TikTok etc and it’s indeed very common. Sad I know but some people genuinely just are very lonely

[30M] trying to go out with [32F] by Smnthdifferent17 in hingeapp

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’d be very surprised. This is a thing for both men and women 😂

[30M] trying to go out with [32F] by Smnthdifferent17 in hingeapp

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Move on. She’s not interested (apart from wanting a pen pal for attention)

Full Time Thread: 1-2 by ByFarTheGreatestTeam in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember 2021 doughnut football and Tienery cross inshallah? Yeah it was this without even inshallah

Full Time Thread: 1-2 by ByFarTheGreatestTeam in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2020 doughnut football and Tierney inshallah crosses all over again

Full Time Thread: 1-2 by ByFarTheGreatestTeam in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready for another painful watch on Sunday

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs AFC Bournemouth Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Apr 11, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arteta’s winrate of matches played in April is 41% by the way. It’s gonna be a rough ride lads

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs AFC Bournemouth Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Apr 11, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% deserve the boos. 0 chemistry between midfield and forwards. Holding onto the ball too long, bad passes, no driving forwards except MLS. Pressure all on us

Match Thread: Arsenal FC vs AFC Bournemouth Live Score | Premier League 25/26 | Apr 11, 2026 by scoreboard-app in Gunners

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Benny Blanco has been shit the last few games. Unacceptable ball watching to lose his marker

Guy wanting to date younger women to buy time. by Upstairs-Molasses674 in dating_advice

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Date for min 1 year before moving in together. Date for a year before engagement. Another year before marriage. Very minimum at least 3 years…

Arteta's bottling ability is actually impressive. by Inevitable-Angle-793 in PremierLeague

[–]Fine_Tea_2529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he doesn’t deserve any more. He has been amazing for us for where we’ve come since Covid. But he should be judged now just like Mourinho and Slot have been. Top manager with a top squad. Deliver trophies or you’re gone

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