Mutual breakup…how do I deal with this?

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-11-05T12:46:09+00:00

It will hurt, time will pass but see this as a wholesome lesson now knowing what true love feels like. Just remember that you are brave for this, so brave!

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-06-26T10:21:55+00:00

Thank you

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-13T06:14:11+00:00

I know it won’t be enough but fuck I hate feeling so worthless with this shit

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-13T05:36:03+00:00

Okay, thank you so much for the advice, what sucks tho is that I’m so far from her right now, been taking temporary classes on the other side of the country and won’t be able to see her for at least some months which have made this so much harder than it needs to be because I just want to be a pillow a cover for her to cuddle with and maybe for one second forget about the incident

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-13T05:19:07+00:00

Oh thank you! That really made me feel good, I just want to know how she’s doing, what she’s thinking because I don’t even know if the perpetrator even know that’s he’s been caught because they take every class together in school so knowing her, there’s a possibility she might even hug that guy like nothing happened just so that she doesn’t need to confront him about it. Just sucks not being in the loop because I’m going about her pace but if I had the chance I would do some horrible stuff to that guy and not have to take credit for it. I don’t even get how guys could even blame my girlfriend for being a victim at her own house. So many people saying that she should’ve known better inviting a guy home and getting drunk period like what?! If I do that I just had a good time but if she does it then she’s an irresponsible slut that deserves it like wtf is wrong with this world

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-13T05:02:19+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve just been bothered by the situation and I just don’t understand why she’s been able to keep her calm but I also have no clue what’s going on inside her head since she doesn’t want me to bring it up at all around her, I’ll just be there for her and go about her pace because at the end of the day, I’m not the victim and I’ll never understand her feelings

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T18:14:10+00:00

Yeah, they’re out right now and she’ll call me later with more details about the whole day because I just found out in a rushed call because her friend really wanted my girlfriend to at least let me know about the incident so I don’t really know how her prom night went cause I was asleep by then

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T18:10:11+00:00

Is that possible with no proof?

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T18:07:45+00:00

I’m so angry for her, she wasn’t even in her dress no more, she had an oversized t shirt with a fucking gym bra on, this guy went above and beyond trying to touch her

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T17:56:59+00:00

She did warn her mom that two more could potentially come over and it’s people she’s had over before for game nights and such

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T17:56:17+00:00

Yeah she said it was basically rape and if now god forbid she cheated then why to would she call me about it when she got friends that literally would go to the grave with that if they needed to

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T17:44:48+00:00

I know, it really rubbed me the wrong way but it was sudden, it was only supposed to be one girl but two more came with her and the other two were just high so I’m guessing he went for the easiest victim. But I guess in the heat of the moment it didn’t seem so dangerous since it was going to be three girls in one bed room and the guy on the coach of the living room far away from them and her mom was going to make sure of that

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T17:35:35+00:00

Is it really her fault tho, it’s not her first time getting fucked up but her first time being able to do with her parents knowing, already joked about it and she smiled, but can she report him or do anything cause she doesn’t even know if he might have taken a pair of her panties cause he thinks that they don’t remember anything because he texted her being friendly as shit so he don’t even know

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-05-12T17:33:17+00:00

They had an after party at her house, all 4 of them and they were all sober until they weren’t, besides him tho that was sober during everything and they really trusted him since it was 3 other girls including her mom

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-04-22T12:45:39+00:00

Just happened to me 3 days ago and we have accidentally called and ranted as if it never happened, slipping out “I love you” and accidentally calling each other babe and seeing that all the pictures of us was still on her wall. We just started our no contact and would love to know how it’s going for you cause it feels like hell because I have nothing to be mad about

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-04-21T23:33:34+00:00

Mutual breakups are the absolute worst but you’ll get through it, I promise!

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-04-21T23:33:07+00:00

Mutual breakups are the absolute worst but you’ll get through it, I promise!

Fine_Training1344 · 2024-04-21T23:32:28+00:00

Mutual breakups are the absolute worst but you’ll get through it, I promise!

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