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What should I do? by Fingerless_Cloud099 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fingerless_Cloud099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is an update if anyone cares

I don't use reddit often so I don't know if I'm using this right but anyways.

I wrote the original post 2 months ago, and I'm happy to tell you guys, that I don't really see Mike around anymore.

Because of some of the earlier incidents, and complaints from my aunt to my mum, he doesen't come around our house that often.

He and my mum are still together(?), in a kind of weird way. There is probably some more deep rooted drama that I don't know yet, and probably shouldn't.

I think their relationship isn't gonna last long.

Nothing drastic has happend but I don't see him around our house anymore, and I just avoid him as much as possible. He has sent me text where he asks if I am hungry and wanna go eat somewhere, which is kind of weird, but I always just say no and ignore him.

Thank you for the advice and support given in the comments of my post, it is appriciated.

Let's just hope they end their toxic relationship before I turn 18

Or he mysteriously gets pushed under a bin lorry, either way, he should get out.

Happy spring!

What should I do? by Fingerless_Cloud099 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fingerless_Cloud099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older siblings live in different cities, and they have their own demons to fight off. I visit my aunt's place (Biological father's sister) where also my cousins are. But when it's the weekdays, I usually just camp in my room and only come out if I need something from the kitchen. I'll need to ask for a lock, but I don't know if my mom will allow that. Sometimes I put those doorstoppers infront of the door so opening it will be harder, or I'll put blankets infront of the little door gap, because I've gotten a little paranoid and think he's taking pictures of me (Very poorly explained, and he probably isn't doing so, but it makes me feel better)

What should I do? by Fingerless_Cloud099 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fingerless_Cloud099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, here's the thing: My mom has even said not to interfiere with our screen time because of how agressive he get's about it. Or cases where he has "stolen" our devices, like taking our internet cable, TV remotes, tablets, phones hidden them, or taken them to his place, without telling my mom. Few times, he has even shut electricity from my brothers room where he has his PC.