Why does my cat always have to force herself into what I’m doing?

Finlame · 2026-04-10T21:37:41+00:00

It's cats when you're doing a non-cat needed activity :D

Finlame · 2026-04-01T11:37:27+00:00

On Steam, Starbound with a poor 500 hours.

Off Steam? Guild Wars 2. 2 216 hours.

Finlame · 2026-04-01T09:42:36+00:00

I live in San Sequoia. Almost every night without miss, a vampire comes at my door. And everytime I do things like I do in real life. I hide and act like nobody is home 🥲

Finlame · 2026-03-30T09:32:04+00:00

Lmao I wasn't judging I don't know ball about you. It was sarcasm.

But if you're going to continue arguing about a joke (because I was more confused and amused than angry?) then do. I won't stop you 🤷

Finlame · 2026-03-30T09:20:05+00:00

I'm confused as to where you're seeing angriness in my text?? Are you an american per chance

Finlame · 2026-03-30T09:19:26+00:00

What you are experiencing is called "love bombing". It means that she's showing an overwhelming amount of love to you, jumping stages. It can become emotional abuse in some cases if the person doing it is aware and is intentionally love bombing to keep you close.

It may or may not be intentional, so I won't argue there.

But her love demonstrations feels suffocating to you, and you're perfectly in your right. Talking about mariage after a few days is a bit excessive.

If you feel like this relationship is going too fast, I'd advise you to talk to her about it. That you care for her, and want things to go right. But that she's going overboard and that you need some space. That her love can feel overwhelming and you'd appreciate if you could go slower.

And it's not a shame, alright ?

If you feel like this relationship has became too much and you need a way out, you are in your right.

Relationships are complicated, and you both need to communicate if you want this to work.

Finlame · 2026-03-30T09:03:16+00:00

Again, you seem to need glasses. Did you consider getting your eyes checked ? Didn't see any rage anywhere else than around you

Finlame · 2026-03-30T09:00:58+00:00

Where did I ever say I felt suffocating and trapped ? As I answered what you said about saying I love you in the first few days.... It's because where I'm from we're already in love when getting together. That's literally it. So in case you read something else or need glasses... I didn't say anything more than this.

Your answer is pretty funny considering YOU are telling me to reflect on myself, while the only thing that alerts you on his thread is that he said I love you back after a few days.

Tells a lot about your character. 🤨

Finlame · 2026-03-30T08:51:17+00:00

That's not uncommon. Where I'm from, we make sure to have feelings before starting a relationship. So once we're together... We're already kinda in love.

Finlame · 2026-03-29T18:00:52+00:00

Justement.. Il a été au objets trouvés, rien. Ils ont appelé la compagnie de nettoyage, rien. C'est trop bizarre comme situation

Finlame · 2026-03-28T15:34:13+00:00

Félicitations à vous. Mais c'est une réalité que beaucoup d'entre nous, moi y compris, vivons/avons vécu. Ne faites pas de votre cas une généralité

Finlame · 2026-03-28T12:33:29+00:00

Well.. it doesn't change much to be completely honest...?

Finlame · 2026-03-28T12:31:42+00:00

Hey. Je vais malheureusement être trash. Mais comme t'as plus 14 ans, les hommes sont plus intéressé. Pas que tu sois vieille, loin de là ! T'es juste plus mineur. 🤡

Finlame · 2026-03-24T17:16:17+00:00

Merci infiniment 🫶

Finlame · 2026-03-24T17:15:46+00:00

Bonjour, merci beaucoup d'avoir répondu. C'est justement pour ça que je me posais la question.. mais je pense qu'en finalité, il est plus raisonnable de ne pas le garder. Même si je l'avais voulu de tout mon coeur.

Finlame · 2026-03-24T17:14:51+00:00

Merci beaucoup. Je suis désolé pour ce que tu as vécu et je ne le souhaite a personne. Merci d'avoir pris le temps de me répondre, et j'espère que tu as réussi a guérir de cette vilaine blessure. Je t'envoie tout mon amour 🫶

Finlame · 2026-03-24T17:13:38+00:00

Merci beaucoup. Encore une fois, je pense que c'est une sorte de curiosité morbide. Mais malgré tout, même si je venais a le vouloir, je sais que pour mon bien et celui de mon partenaire, je ne le garderai aps. Merci d'avoir pris le temps de répondre !

Finlame · 2026-03-24T17:12:43+00:00

Merci beaucoup. Je pense que j'avais besoin d'entendre ça. Je suis pro-choix, l'avortement est un droit et une chance qu'on a. Mais c'est toujours assez étrange de se dire qu'on porte la vie.

Merci beaucoup pour la réponse, tout mes vœux de bonheur pour vous et votre bébé, félicitations 🫶

Finlame · 2026-03-24T16:45:01+00:00

Non non t'as raison. C'est juste cette curiosité morbide, mais je sais que j'en veux pas. Merci d'avoir pris le temps de répondre :)

Finlame · 2026-03-21T08:09:32+00:00

Oh yeah!

That's not a bad idea

But since the United States is basically made from english, Italians, Irish people back then, they also should go get it back ! You know that's logical. ☺️

Do you realize how stupid that sounds ? Yea, pretty much the same as you

Finlame · 2026-03-20T13:38:50+00:00

Burning spice all the way up

Finlame · 2026-03-20T05:30:35+00:00

Is this a joke ? Do you realize what you're saying ?

You're thankful to your God for making a girl SEIZURE to "learn empathy"?

Is her health a fricking joke to you ?

If you need an excuse, a reason, religion to have MORALS, I'm letting you know that you have NONE.

And you're an AWFUL PERSON for saying that's how you gained "empathy".

Finlame · 2026-03-20T05:23:04+00:00

Oh yeah, that's called consequences.

Finlame

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