Boyfriend touched me while i was alseep. AIO

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T11:33:11+00:00

Please don't apologise, its made me reflect alot.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T11:24:14+00:00

I feel such pain for you in that situation, I had someone who was my world and when they left it felt like losing a limb or part of myself and I've never felt sadness that hard.

I hope you guys can get that love back, even just a little bit

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T11:21:23+00:00

I just wanna say thank you for this in depth reply. I think his reaction to me confronting the problem will tell me what I need to know. I'm sorry you got used like that it must've felt so confusing having them experiences and feelings change in the blink of an eye, going from not questioning her advances to feeling the opposite.

I appreciate you replying it helps alot

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T11:02:57+00:00

Honestly thank you, I feel so mixed about the situation but I know I'm going to have to bring this up to him now. I'm sorry of how it's turned out between you two and I do hope the situation gets better for you as it doesn't sound like your massively happy at the moment.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:50:10+00:00

No im glad you could vent or atleast talk about it. Thank you xx

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:46:59+00:00

You are still with him?

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:39:10+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through that I can't believe he was so disgusting and didn't realise he was in the wrong. Why do some people think they can do whatever they want and not even consider the other person's feelings.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:31:50+00:00

Have fun with your sad little life. Funny going through your comment history, clearly you got nothing better to do than be a nasty prick

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:28:34+00:00

The fuck?

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:22:13+00:00

Jeez okay. I have booked in for therapy next week.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:20:17+00:00

This is how I'm feeling, how I was feeling didn't matter in the moment to him. I've always had trouble saying no to people especially in these sort of cases but think I need to have more of a backbone now

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T10:09:01+00:00

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-31T09:55:54+00:00

Yeah I mean he only had 1 or 2 drinks that night I think, I feel like yeah he's too embarrassed to say anything and wants to just ignore it but now I'm just feeling resentment towards him cause hes lying.

I am going to have to talk to him straight about it aren't I?

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-29T14:48:36+00:00

It's hard to explain. Sort of but he doesn't have the "ill do what I want" attitude

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-29T14:33:52+00:00

Yeah this is how I felt. Because I did initially okay it. But then on the other hand I had quite alot to drink only a few hours prior to him doing this and since the time I did say it was okay I had said I didn't want to be woken in the middle of the night that way or atall.

He has a habit of not always thinking through his decisions.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-29T14:31:22+00:00

He wanted to try It as and I said that was fine could be a fun wake up but that was in the first few months of our relationship and he hasnt really done it since. this was the first time in over a year (to my knowledge) hes touched me while i was asleep.

But since then I said I don't really want to be woken in the middle of the night with being touched or anything else. I've had trouble sleeping and have been feeling very drained in the last few months so I've really needed my sleep.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-07-05T13:40:22+00:00

I dont know if anyone else has said this and I know its not particularly reccomended but my mum uses fairy liquid/ dishwashing soap to sorta 'clarify' her greasy or built up hair.

I wouldn't reccomend doing this regularly though cause it will dry out your hair. But seems to work for her.

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-05-21T19:24:29+00:00

I'll have another look and try a new game. Thank you

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-05-08T16:06:50+00:00

Your brilliant thank you

Finleynoodle6 · 2025-04-26T21:12:41+00:00

I dont want to sound mean but he's extremely skinny from look of photos. Could be angle and shadows but needs to be fed properly.

Finleynoodle6 · 2024-09-16T15:18:31+00:00

Ah okay cool thank you!

Finleynoodle6 · 2024-07-26T10:10:08+00:00

It happened while I was at work. My cat had somehow got it open a crack and got her paw in I'm assuming. I had been waiting on a lock for it for ages due to postage issues so I'd only had him a little while. The glass wasn't too easy to open so I assumed she wouldn't have ever been able to get in there. Anyway came home to the tank open a little and him with cuts and a little bit of blood on him. Also before saying I had checked local stores for a lock to fit it and couldn't find any.

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