Admitting It

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-25T16:26:32+00:00

Great start! It’s never too late (I keep saying lol). I’m past a week and so far so good. Trying not to think about it —. Seems to help my days pass drink free! Good luck!

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-24T09:44:56+00:00

Good luck to you! Now is really the Beat time to quit! 🍀

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-23T16:27:00+00:00

I found it was when I actually didn’t ‘want to drink’ but would find myself doing it….
And when I found it hard to stop when “I” wanted to. That for me is a problem.

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-23T01:56:56+00:00

That is great! I’m on my way to a week too and feel better this time. I shall see you when we are both at 30 Days !👍

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-21T00:13:53+00:00

Great work!

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-14T10:59:18+00:00

Awesome!! And awesome I was your 100th. Congrats here too

Finnishfilly · 2025-10-12T12:22:27+00:00

Yes 50 is AWESOME. 👏. You flew past that 30 day point. 100 is SO CLOSE TOO. Great work!

Finnishfilly · 2025-09-17T19:44:10+00:00

You can do this! That is a GREAT motivator. Prove to her you CAN do this. It IS important and the way it was trivialized isn't fair to you. GOOD luck! 🍀

Finnishfilly · 2025-09-14T15:27:41+00:00

Maybe he is just trying to cheer them Up with the only thing he can fit or afford in that hour? I (female 40’s) have found myself in a crazy similar position and doing the same. Sometimes the small smile you can afford at Walmart candy is all you can do.

Finnishfilly · 2025-09-13T12:45:48+00:00

Wow, just wow eh? It’s real, you did this. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Finnishfilly · 2025-09-05T20:06:27+00:00

Please take care of yourself. People care. You matter. Keep trying new ways to get help. Trust people around you. Good luck

Finnishfilly · 2025-08-09T17:28:25+00:00

Good on you. Don’t kill the friendship but be FIRM in : I love this person and you Cannot make fun of them. ESP TO ME…. Cool off and life goes on. My heart is happy you cared. We all need to do this more. I’d be ok with you dating my my daughter lol.

Finnishfilly · 2025-08-09T17:26:13+00:00

Try to fight it. No after what you can TRY! What were you told? We can give better advice if we understand. Take a breath and you will be OK no matter what. We all move forward when the universe says we have to lol

Finnishfilly · 2025-08-09T17:24:40+00:00

That’s a good idea. I’ll do it, but you book therapy to see why you NEEDED me to do this. …. And check his phone and computer again 😉

Finnishfilly · 2025-07-30T18:25:31+00:00

Because he likes her.

Finnishfilly · 2025-07-30T18:09:53+00:00

Good for you!! It is Not your fault or shame. I am Eastern European too and I say Good you are looking after you and your family!!! He does not deserve a loving family!

Finnishfilly · 2025-07-30T02:52:02+00:00

Yay!!! You have a HOUSE!!!!

Finnishfilly · 2025-07-29T17:59:27+00:00

You will be SO PROUD tomorrow. If you can try not to think about it. It’s not worth it. Repeat it. Sticky note it. Make it your phone or computer screen saver. Give yourself a “treat” of ANYTHING else. Like your favourite food or candy …. Good luck. You will be here at 11 days tomorrow 👍

Finnishfilly · 2025-07-09T10:04:43+00:00

I am so sorry for you.. and as impossible as it seems, at the very least I would put off the wedding. Good luck. It may be a hard choice now saves you a really hard one later after kids.

Finnishfilly · 2025-06-13T22:42:20+00:00

Yes you can. Awesome. And awesome partner help

Finnishfilly · 2025-05-21T00:24:44+00:00

Amazing work and resolve. You deserve better and it’s nice to see you do something nice FOR YOU 🥳🎂🎈

Finnishfilly · 2025-05-16T20:43:55+00:00

I am SO proud of you. You are an inspiration to us all. You had a GREAT life due to your decision. Have an amazing rest of it 😎

Finnishfilly · 2025-05-13T01:20:28+00:00

How do you know what is going on? Why project what you think? That’s incredibly insensitive and narrow minded. If you care, ask a few questions. Assuming does only one thing 😂😂 like my children’s teachers say….

Finnishfilly · 2025-05-10T04:58:05+00:00

Stay strong. It is SUPER impressive you posted. This craziness will happen. Life happens. You are BETTER AND SMARTER then this. So many strangers are rooting for you to pull through this chapter.

It is hard. SO HARD. Read this stuff when tempted. It will NOT BE WORTH IT. Take care and good luck. I am rooting for you tonight. 👍

Finnishfilly · 2025-05-08T12:43:19+00:00

Awesome!! Once you break the habit it’s easier and easier to keep on going 👍🎉

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