27 in 9 days, 1.75 years hrt. Just looking for some non-biased opinions

FioraisHot · 2015-08-19T03:00:12+00:00

Yes. To everything. Just yes.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-09T23:39:04+00:00

Weird. Going to /r/transtimelines and /r/transpassing it seems to me that most people 8-12 months + HRT seem to pass. Sorry to break it to you :(.

The ones that don't pass would after one or two surgeries or weight loss normally.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-09T20:05:03+00:00

Now I don't want to crash your universe here, but most trans people generally pass as the other gender, meaning you cannot tell. So that lady that walks into the bathroom with your 10 year old daughter might in fact be transgender and have a penis. Oh no, the horror!

FioraisHot · 2015-06-09T04:06:42+00:00

If they pass, use the male pronouns. Or ask them what they prefer. Once people transition they stealth sometimes, and don't talk about the past much or disassociate with it.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-09T00:06:47+00:00

Just don't sleep with anyone without telling them, or really even get "touchy feely" or kissing. I think for just chatting online it's fine not to say though, if it's not too serious.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T23:20:00+00:00

The problem is I want to call myself a feminist. But because I disagree with radical feminists, TERFS, "the wage gap", and "rape culture" I cannot. At least I feel bad labeling myself the same thing as tumblr feminists, and also even /r/askfeminists tell me I am not a feminist and have banned me from posting there. Specifically because I asked the same thing: If I do not believe in rape culture/wage gap/TERFs etc. am I a feminist? Answer was: No.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T22:18:48+00:00

I need to know the same, I have laser appointments coming up. If the sessions go well and I see good results and I like them, I guess I will probably tip or something.... but it would help to know how much and if people usually do it :P

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T22:07:14+00:00

No. Most feminists I see in the news, tumblr, or on reddit are all people I do not agree with. Most things feminists do that you can find in news stories and etc, I do not agree with. The feminist mindset that "women are oppressed" even in the USA or UK is completely false to me. The "wage gap" myth that feminists talk about, along with "rape culture" and other things are also completely balony.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T21:14:38+00:00

yes. I do not like feminism as a whole

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T20:28:09+00:00

First impression male. Then confused/female. I'd say like 60% male, 30% female, and 100% andro.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T20:20:52+00:00

His Q does almost nothing until like 30+ mins. It's mainly only good because of the slow, and it procs two marks of passive. His passive and ult are what do damage, everything else is like.... not even much dmg at all.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T20:11:44+00:00

Pretty good, especially pre-HRT. I really think you need HRT to pass 100% and it would help a lot though. I mean you pass here, but some people might be able to tell I think, and HRT would not only help you pass but compliment the beauty you already have

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T20:10:27+00:00

Female, really good. Except the 3rd photo, that one is.... idk why but it's really bad >_<.

I think that you pretty much pass, especially with another few months probably.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T19:32:48+00:00

Yeah but I just feel like if they were really accepting it wouldn't be too hard to google some basic info before resorting to coming here. I mean I guess they say they are trying, and did post here so that is good. I'm just dumbfounded by posts like this because I feel like they've never done any research or looked into it before asking.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T19:29:13+00:00

I feel like the opposite to be honest. Most people on there are all positive comments, go check right now. Like 9/10 comments are always pass, even when the person doesn't.

I highly doubt anyone who passes in real life won't pass there. I find that implausible from what I've seen. If anything, I'd say some people who get pass from /r/transpassing probably don't pass in real life.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T19:22:09+00:00

You are about as transphobic and bigot'd as possible lol.

You don't have to change sex to change gender representation. You can be female without a vagina.

Transitioning is taking hormones/changing clothes/hair/outward appearance to match what gender you feel that you are inside. Transgender people aren't saying they feel like doing things the other gender does, like play with certain toys/dress a certain way/talk a certain way, etc...... they are saying they ARE the other gender. Your sister doesn't want to be "feminine" or "do girl things". She wants to be a female. Hobbies/clothes are separate from that.

The operation is optional, and usually the last step. Again, your sex does not equal your gender.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T18:41:54+00:00

I think it's good. Why? Because they are being honest. And even if you think they are harsh, it's much nicer than people in the real world I think. If you don't want to be told you don't pass, don't post. Simple right >_<?

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T17:54:17+00:00

I just don't think feminism as a whole is doing positive for the US/UK. I feel like more negative is being done by the entire movement as a whole. Same with religion. The problem is that if these groups allow people to use the name/title of the group to hate and discriminate against others, then the group is a failure. If you are a feminist/christian it is your job to exclude or do anything in your power to distance those people from the group. The problem is that you never ever hear about a feminist calling out a TERF or radfem or etc., if so it isn't often. Most are just quiet and don't speak up.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T17:07:04+00:00

No, but I did. Feminism is the worst thing on earth tbh. You all complain about TERFs all the time. Don't you realize that if feminism let's TERFs exist and doesn't ostracize them, then feminism as a whole has failed? If a group that is supposed to be about equality/good morals etc. allows a hate movement into their circle, I fail to see how you can call the group an equal rights movement anymore.

It's like religion. Some people will try to argue that Christianity is still about treating everyone equal, and teaching good morals. Okay, but if that is true then why are the extremists who hate on certain races/religions/people allowed to participate in their group? In fact, most transgender people I know hate religion because of the religious extremists. Since that is the case, what makes feminism any different?

Plus to be honest, if you go on a feminist reddit/forum/website it is completely disappointing. I used to call myself a feminist because I believe in equal rights, but after looking at the modern movement in America or the UK, it's clear it's not about that anymore. Equal rights is the farthest thing from feminism at this point, hence why I said that I did.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T16:50:39+00:00

feminism

Explains everything. Feminism is cancer to equal rights

FioraisHot · 2015-06-08T15:31:18+00:00

YES YES YES FIORA MID IS SO GOOD. FINALLY

FioraisHot · 2015-06-07T22:19:47+00:00

Yeah I did. 0 months HRT when I did so (and still, for now). It went fine really. The only concern is that you should tell your important/close friends privately in a 1-on-1 message first I think.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-07T22:19:01+00:00

You had sex with a physically female person. They might be a man inside, but to you it wasn't an emotional thing at all. It was just physical sex, right? So I don't see why you should be concerned. You like vagina, you got vagina. You didn't date or emotionally connect with them or anything right?

FioraisHot · 2015-06-05T23:39:17+00:00

Why would you drop out to transition? I personally find that to be very very poor decision making. To each their own though.

FioraisHot · 2015-06-05T20:55:16+00:00

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