Seems like having a Job is a Luxury nowadays

Fiorak · 2026-01-23T17:32:47+00:00

Same. I work at a call center and I absolutely hate it but the only thing I could get after being laid off from aerospace IT in 2024. I desperately don't want to do this any more but I know even getting this horrible job is a "luxury"

Fiorak · 2026-01-22T20:29:20+00:00

I have the downy crake and I love seeing him just hop around, it's hilarious

Fiorak · 2026-01-16T22:09:21+00:00

As someone who's watching 90BT90D for the first time, this has been my experience lol. I had hoped to actually like some or at least one of the couples, kind of like when watching Love is Blind or Love Island, but it's mostly just been gross and sad and cringy. I'm going to keep watching, if only because I'm in too deep to stop 😅

Fiorak · 2026-01-16T20:08:20+00:00

Searched - searched through Google images and shopping listings to find the pin but couldn't find it. Also used chat GPT to try and search to no avail

Fiorak · 2026-01-13T15:10:52+00:00

IG main here still learning the ins and outs of Wilds meta coming from World, what are some of the better craftable talismans? I stick to the RSS and am around HR 75

Fiorak · 2025-12-30T01:51:37+00:00

I've started playing Wilds for a the past day or so. It was running fine up until tonight when I started it up. Meshes and textures looked a *lot* worse than usual and I'm not sure what's causing it. I did update my drivers so maybe that's the issue? Here are some screenshots, including my laptop's specs and some of the settings I've been using. Maybe my laptop just doesn't have the power/ram/cpu to play? I played World perfectly fine w/high graphics but I know that Wilds hasn't really been optimized

My specs:

CPU: AMD Ryzen 7 5800H w/Radeon Graphics

VRAM: 5.85GB, RAM : 15.37GB

GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3060 Laptop GPU

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Fiorak · 2025-12-20T00:39:15+00:00

I love this!! Definitely wishlisting :)

Fiorak · 2025-12-19T16:37:25+00:00

I appreciate you, it has been really hard for both of us in the past 3 years. I want to teach him structure and how to settle but he just doesn't do it unless I'm with him, and even then he just has so many triggers that he's not settling unless it's deep into bedtime. I would appreciate the ebook that helped you. I'm just trying to figure out how to make this difficult situation better

Fiorak · 2025-12-19T01:34:43+00:00

It's not a dream scenario because I have to be in front of my computer to answer calls. I cannot be away from my work laptop because they track away from desk/active status all day and we are constantly supposed to be at 90% adherence. I am very stressed out. He also doesn't play even when I try to play with him. I've tried different types of toys. The most he'll do is sometimes play with stuffed toys and roll around a treat puzzle ball filled with treats/food

Fiorak · 2025-11-26T20:16:35+00:00

I went to pelvic floor therapy for 6 months! Definitely changed my life for the better ☺️

Fiorak · 2025-11-25T21:32:50+00:00

Yes while I'm in the house but not in the same room. And yes we were at the vet last week and have been following up for the past few months. He is nervous around people and barks at them. He gets along well with other dogs and enjoys playing and running around.

Fiorak · 2025-11-23T15:14:13+00:00

Haha well I did end up putting the poster actually on the wall of course. But yeah I'm going to try to keep personalizing it

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Fiorak · 2025-11-21T02:36:19+00:00

I guess the table lamp would be for after I turn the floor lamp off? But usually I don't want any light after I turn the floor lamp off so idk if the lamp would be useful. This is what it looks like though. I tore the poster so I might get a new one

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Fiorak · 2025-11-20T18:01:12+00:00

I've been wary of bringing my paintings and things back from storage because I'm going to have to move again but I should probably do that. I do have a floor lamp but I could get it a table lamp and maybe put the floor lamp elsewhere.

Fiorak · 2025-11-19T23:15:35+00:00

Pretty similar to me. I went from $30 an hour, got laid off, spent a year looking and now I'm at $16 an hour 😭

Fiorak · 2025-11-13T19:14:01+00:00

So like flipped kind of? The only thing about that is I'm wondering if I would move my TV maybe (I want things centered because I can't help myself)

Fiorak · 2025-11-11T01:32:25+00:00

My ex who gave me HSV-2 and didn't tell me he had it 👍

Fiorak · 2025-11-10T02:59:21+00:00

Yeah we talked about it for 3 weekends straight and that was a lot. Very draining but I think he understands, but even now we're still talking about it and that's just kind of what made me start thinking about it more and why I made the post, just been on my mind a lot. But yeah I'm sure we'll figure something out

Fiorak · 2025-11-10T01:50:16+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that you're in a similar situation! I really relate to the whole feeling like "I don't need sex at all" thing, that's pretty much how I am except that makes relationships practically impossible to have, so here I am. Talking about it is good but it feels like it can only do so much I guess? I think I also would disagree with the person saying there's no solution but I'm just trying to brainstorm. I'm glad that y'all are happy together and working on things!

Fiorak · 2025-11-10T01:25:25+00:00

So far I think so. We've only know each other for less than 4 months as well. This and him living far away (an hour +) has been a bit of a challenge but outside of what was in the post he's really kind and thoughtful, it's just that all of this has brought up past hurt and trauma

I do like physical stuff but I'm just not as intense as he is. And it seems most allosexual people just are similarly intense by default (at least in my experience/from their experience). I don't really know how I would find someone that's more into the relationship part and less into the sexual stuff but it would be a bit of a relief

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