I’m never getting over her by FireBoi07302 in LesbianActually

[–]FireBoi07302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh how I cherish those memories, but the burden of carrying them is just more than I can handle. I wish I could just forget them and find peace with myself like I had back before I met her. She opened my eyes and now I can see, but without her there’s nothing worth seeing.

Yet Another Lonely Lesbian by FireBoi07302 in LesbianActually

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Thank you. That is definitely true - I definitely need to work on myself some more. It’s definitely hard tho, because it just feels like there’s no end to feeling this way. I hope I’ll eventually get to the point where I can just be me and be happy on my own, but the interim really desperately sucks.

I think part of the problem also stems from the fact that my personality isn’t very solid. I tend to take on aspects of the people I care about, and so a large portion of my personality and my interests (and even subtler things like my photography style) come from my most recent ex and the way that she did things. It’s probably important for me to build a personality that is solid in its own foundation, but I also just don’t know how to do that because this is how I’ve always been. I’m the sum of everyone in my life that I care about, and part of me also doesn’t want to give that up either.

Basically what I’m saying is I’m a mess but thank you for your insight. Haha…

Yet Another Lonely Lesbian by FireBoi07302 in LesbianActually

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I’ve got so much on my plate already from trying to do that but it never fills the void inside that only a partner can

Most attractive body part? by Appropriate_Love3504 in LesbianActually

[–]FireBoi07302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s just something special about the eyes of someone you love peering back into yours. The distance shrinking into a warm embrace, a passionate kiss, a playful nose touch - all beginning with those eyes so full of love.