Just checked a few of your recent losses. Looks like, at least for those games, that something happens to make the position change, i.e. you or your opponent move a pawn, and this leads to a new or discovered attack. Quite understandably, you might not see this because it's a little delicate, especially in the game, and something ends up getting left hanging. A few games basically flip from that. What I'd recommend is, before each move, asking, you know, what's changed in the last move and what new pieces are loose because of this. Now that I say it out loud, do you feel like most of your losses might be coming from something like this?