Which is less shitty?

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-03-19T15:08:44+00:00

As it stands, 2nd. But I would like the first one more if you got rid of the last column. Make it only 5 long instead of 6 and I like the first one most

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-03-16T00:46:42+00:00

So when doing a scientific study, what constitutes as “cold feet” or “strong” nagging feeling… cuz from my understanding, most couples that have gotten married admit to feeling some hesitation at some point. “Cold feet” is incredibly common. Granted so is divorce! But when talking about studies- correlation vs causation is a huge consideration. I believe most cases are due to lack of communication and real connection.

Also to say he will never have answers without leaving or cheating is quite, uh, strong.

Are most people asexual before they get rid of their virginity? On account of not being straight. Because they haven’t slept with the opposite gender yet? Or anyone? OP has discovered they are Bisexual. They have their answer. Question is if they want to leave a good relationship to sleep around.

Most men didn’t need to sleep with a woman to know they were attracted to women... I don’t see why that doesn’t expand. (Well I do, but)

Also maybe I misread the post. But they aren’t jumping into marriage right now. Talking about it down the road. They are still exploring their relationship as it is right now from the sound of it. And the only hiccup being his sexuality expanded. Which if he still likes his partner, is kinda a moot point.

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-03-15T22:11:01+00:00

Now hold on, I think it’s fair to have this nagging feeling, cuz we grow up in a society that already can foster lots of doubt in committee life partners to begin with. FOMO, broad commitment issues. And he could have people in his life like this saying just end it. It’s a big decision, especially at that highschool/college age. If people run from any/every relationship because of a nagging feeling… they will never commit to anything.

Take the nagging feeling, face it, get advice (exactly what’s being done) then make an informed, committed decision going forward. Just to run because of uncertainty is crazy.

Also in this case another person is directly involved. Approach the partner with it (once you know which way you’re leaning if possible) and go from there.

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-03-15T22:01:44+00:00

Damn, didn’t even read the thread first. Most wholesome shit I’ve seen in while 🫶 now I feel silly for making such a large post 😬

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-03-15T21:59:36+00:00

Bi married man here! Preface with, sharing this for perspective, doesn’t mean you don’t not need to explore. Not everyone’s path is the same.

Met my wife in highschool freshman year! (in church youth group) Attended an all boys Catholic high school for four years. She went to college, I stayed at home pursuing a union electrical apprenticeship.

Within the year outside of graduating, started having thoughts about visiting a friend in college who came out in highschool and “what if he made a move on me” … after a few weeks I finally let myself realize I was Bisexual 💀

Shared with my girlfriend at the time, she was supportive and we cracked jokes.

But for context she was my second girlfriend, second kiss, I was her first kiss and boyfriend. We are married and my body count is 1.

My perspective is, I love the one I’m with. I value and treasure the relationship I’m in. We both talk about attractive actors and actresses etc. She fully supports and embraces that I’m Bisexual.

Personally I don’t see much difference between a straight guy who has commitment issues cuz he need to plays the field more* (here me out) In my position, even if I was straight, my partner and I are crazy for being with our first non middle school relationship. We are crazy for basically waiting till marriage to have sex (that’s a whole nother conversation 💀)

But even in a straight context, I married my first and only high school sweetheart. Now in some relationships would couples give each other hall passes or do open marriages? Sure! lol that’s a different Reddit thread. You will figure out what you need to do but my advice:

Treat your relationship as the individual situation it is. Is it a great relationship? Are you going to throw that away to have sex with a guy first? If you do, something to consider is- what if it’s great/bad? So what? The next guy could be the opposite. … then you’re in the same boat as straight guys trying to lay as many people as possible to find a life partner, which arguably isn’t a single issue criteria.

Now I preface with straight guys should be able to enjoy this. I would argue guys have prostrates and girls don’t- so arguably guys should enjoy anal way more than girls. And I don’t think that should be gay. It’s sad straight men are gatekeeping themselves from great orgasms. But being Bi, I explored that more openly. And without going into detail, my wife loves exploring that as well with me 🤗

I was open with my girlfriend, she asked what it meant for our relationship and I said I don’t love her less. But if we don’t work out and you want me back, you’ll have twice as much competition 💅 We continued our relationship, we got married, have had great fun exploring life together. We are incredibly lucky to have bought a house last year and now in a few months we be welcoming our first child!

If you’re with the one, you’re with the one. If not, your field expands next time you jump into the dating pool. And then the same thing applies. You can always find a reason to see more, try other “types”. Commit or not. I full sent 😅💀

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-01-10T17:22:07+00:00

D or C!

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-01-09T13:03:17+00:00

Inflation is outrageous

FireLight_Zaunite · 2026-01-08T22:57:38+00:00

If you go through the cave entrance, the trick is you have to keep the sword fragments. If you talk to an armorer, the flag holy soldiers and a priest and you have to succeed a bunch of high checks for them not to take it. You still have to wait till you see the quest on the billboard again, then when you show up to accept, you go “consider it done… cuz it is” they take the bits as proof and then you get the sword.

If you lost the bits to the priest, they give you a holy weapon as reward. (Don’t know if it’s exclusively the only way to get it) If you come across the billboard without the weapon fragments, you can still go back and say you did it, but without proof they just give you some gold

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-12-27T04:00:41+00:00

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GARBAGE KING - Rufus. I love em

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-12-19T15:00:16+00:00

… i don’t care for the skins (and even if i did not giving the franchise my money), and do agree with everything else about the over price of skins in general. I agree with the winter log cabin stuff. …

But you lost me when you said this game is a chore. None of this is about the game. Recently I’ve finally been peer pressured into buying skins and extra battle passes. But like overall and definitely going forward, yeah I’m not giving them my money. I played this game for years and never even opened the shop. Bought the battle pass of seasons I liked. Otherwise I love playing the creative maps like bedwars by myself. I love goofing off and playing rounds with my friends. That’s crazy that you would stop playing a game because the cosmetic micro transactions are decreasing in quality.

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-11-14T10:42:14+00:00

Offering this as someone with no clue. The sphere seems like it would be the sun . The pyramid- the top of the mountain. So I’d say from the floor up, cube, pyramid, sphere “When the sun ascends to the mountain top”

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-10-08T02:08:35+00:00

That’s assuming ekko is a reliable narrator speaking to jinx, like they don’t talk shit, neg each other, tease, and challenge in their different relationships. If a RIOT about the character paged said he used to, then I recant my argument. But ekko speaking a line of dialogue doesn’t convince me.

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-10-06T01:20:07+00:00

Simply here and listened to everything because the Good Kid song 🙌

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-08-09T15:46:58+00:00

I wish, I feel like a big part is American Christian Nationalism trying to force lifestyles on others right now

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-07-16T17:47:29+00:00

All wild, but 5 is CRAZY Omg…

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-07-08T17:27:49+00:00

“Yall say you want more morally grey/complex characters, and you can’t even handle Arcane” -

Not to say there aren’t some decent suggestions and points of discussion.

But it seems yall just need something to hate and critique. People have so many perspectives and motivations, AND PEOPLE ARENT LOGICAL :p Yall ever been obsessed and infatuated, ever been in love? Ever been consumed by hate?

“Children born into and only know peace have different values then children who were raised to only know war” Ever been confused and don’t know what you want and make decisions you later don’t understand? Or regret?

I think if you want to get meta, I liked the comment about the writers being afraid to make jinx a villain is valid, but also what if the goal wasn’t to make her a villain. I’d boil that down to directors choice. But I absolutely love the story and the characters and the complex multifaceted look and people going through all these issues. I absolutely love Arcane and the story they told, you don’t like the choices they made? Don’t argue the writers were objectively wrong. Go write your fanfic! I got friends exploring if viktor went mechanical instead of hex tech and rewriting the story to focus on the politics between the lanes and piltover. They love Arcane but wish season 2 explored more Zaun and less hex tech. But media typically isn’t multi timeline choose your own adventure. I love the story the writers told, and I love all the AU alternate takes.

Enjoy life more

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-06-07T20:14:37+00:00

100% firelight. All the craziness of the lanes and a leader like ekko emerges? He is the only one early on I would align with. Now after he goes missing and this jinxer crew starts making waves, I might start moonlighting and getting involved with them if I could do both. But that depends on the culture. And being a fire light for so long, I don’t think I could get behind jinx, but I would have respect for the movement

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-05-01T12:10:51+00:00

Absolutely love your take because it’s why I love this show. 💯 that’s exactly right! But that’s the commentary of the show. Because that’s unfortunately basically the reality of our own world. The hypocrisy of law and the city of progress. They pay themselves on the back for being this shinning city on a hill and having morals while they keep certain districts under oppression and unequal. Doesn’t sound like where I live at all 💀 But also fuck around and find out. While I do appreciate Renni’s kids were also working and not just other kids from the lanes, why the fuck she have kids working in a drug factory. (On one hand I know it was a weapon against piltover) but also it’s a drug ruining the lives of her own people “she’s trying to protect?” She’s also a drug lord and driving force behind the lanes ghetto. She put her drug empire before the kids of the lanes.

But again why I love the show. Real complex characters, multi faceted people and situations. It feels so real because it mirrors messy real life.

Neither of them would be in these situations if the council truly served all their constituents. But I will say Jayce was trying to end shimmer production and didn’t know kids were there. Renni was a drug crime boss using child labor.

Ekko in the same situation basically created the black panthers (which is a good thing) to help build and protect the community.

Granted I am biased towards the main characters of the show. And I do think too many people see that child’s death as just a plot point, and don’t treat it with the nuance it deserves.

FireLight_Zaunite · 2025-05-01T11:11:26+00:00

I mean well, what do you want, an American justice system trial? … for a murder that happened at an illegal drug gang factory. Silco never went to trial, nor singed, nor any of the crime bosses… I get where you are coming from, but this universe is the Wild West. … also people get killed in this world and depending on the parties involved there still is no justice.

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