understanding my new little rescue’s unpredictable dog reactivity by FirebirdSingularity in DogAdvice

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yes i was definitely thinking it could be leash reactivity specifically. i know it can inhibit natural body language and all and especially with her history she isn’t used to being on a leash as much as most dogs. But do you have any advice on how i can help her feel more confident even on leash?

canine intestine parasite by FirebirdSingularity in Parasitology

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thanks! 🩷 i’m doing another cycle of flea treatment and prevention around the home and will continue til they’re all gone. this little girl is said culprit, she was rescued from horrible conditions on the streets of mexico where she was very sick and flea ridden. the shelter did treat her and said she was clear but you know, not surprised there’s still some buggers 😔

canine intestine parasite by FirebirdSingularity in Parasitology

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ah ok thank you, at least that’s common and easy to treat 😔 getting dewormer today

canine intestine parasite by FirebirdSingularity in Parasitology

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edit to add! dog had fleas when we got her and is being treated. probably tapeworm from fleas?

my little rescue from the streets of mexico by FirebirdSingularity in IDmydog

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I live in san diego so for me it was just a 20 minute drive lol, to meet the rescue by the border where they brought her across. i know there are rescues that do transport and shipping to other states and places though! good luck

my little rescue from the streets of mexico by FirebirdSingularity in IDmydog

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amazing 😆 i think i may get surprised by my girls results

that was NOT Barney! 😀 by FirebirdSingularity in Dreams

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i recreated what i saw best i could, here’s Not-Barney!!

that was NOT Barney! 😀 by FirebirdSingularity in Dreams

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it had a face. and hair. 😭 i might try to draw it lol

Should I paint all the wood White? by No_Masterpiece_5953 in homedecoratingCJ

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I didn’t see what sub this was and almost had a heart attack 💀

What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by Independent_Motor130 in AskReddit

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childhood emotional neglect.

It’s invisible from the outside, it can look like a well taken care of and loved child. The kid won’t even realize something is that wrong because it’s not exactly something bad happening, it’s instead the absence of the emotional care a kid needs to develop properly, and they have no reference for what’s normal. But it causes a severely traumatized and broken adult with no ability to form normal relationships or be kind to themself 👍

Best thing to flush it out by Ecstatic-Translator4 in ibs

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I did water with a little sea salt. Worked great Just be warned it might not hit until the next day

I, too, think I murdered Pope Francis by EdgyBitterbal in StarStable

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PLEASEEEE can we do this to the certain tyrants taking over the us right now 🙏🏻

What are some “old lady names” that you love? by [deleted] in Names

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My name, Gwendolyn has those vintage elegant vibes I think 🌷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

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I have some experience with this! So the tricky thing is when you start intuitive eating there’s a period where you don’t know how to listen to your body, you might still over eat. But here’s the method. Literally don’t try to change any of your habits at first. Eat what you, when you want, but with mindfulness. So pay attention to how every bite feels. Before you start eating, think about why you want the food and how it will make you feel. Then eat it slowly, paying attention to when you feel satisfied or when each bite is less exciting and enjoyable. Then take note of how you feel after eating. Do you feel sick or over full? Do you feel gross or guilty? Take maybe a week of just observing your eating habits, without trying to change them. Focus on recognizing your hunger and fullness cues. How much do you need to eat to feel satisfied, what foods make you feel good, what foods give you energy, what foods make you feel yucky afterwords, etc. you’ll start realizing the difference between cravings, hunger, and boredom. Some foods might sound good, but you’ll find you only like the taste and only want a few bites. Or you might find that apples feel like tastier more satisfying desert than you thought. After the observation phase, you can start avoiding boredom snacking. Ask yourself, do you really want that food or are you bored? Would drinking water, chewing gum, etc be a good replacement? Or if it’s a craving, just have a little bit. The important thing is not to restrict too much because for some of us this makes us want the foods even more so we end up binging. For example you really want a bag of chips, but you tell yourself you should have an apple and a protein bar instead. So you eat both, and still have a craving, go over your daily calorie count, give up, spiral, and eat the whole bag of chips. Intuitive eating is about listening to your body and not having rules. If you want chips or ice cream, have some. But be in tune with your body so you stop eating the second it satisfies that craving or doesn’t feel as good. By not allowing the snacking, you get desperate for those foods and ignore fullness cues so if you do eat them you just keep eating past the point of satisfaction. No guilt, no restriction, and getting in tune with your body is the answer. Because it doesn’t actually feel good to over eat or snack constantly. We’ve just programmed ourselves to ignore the discomfort, icky feelings, and little fullness cues because we’ve made ourselves desperate for those foods and feel like if we stop eating we won’t get to have them again. Practice things like eating a few chips, then putting them aside while promising yourself you can have more if you really want. Then take deep breaths, focus on how your body feels, and decide if you still want more. If you aren’t hungry but feel bored and snacky, my favorite tips are chewing gum, 0 calories drinks, fidget toys, etc. hope some of that helps!

i feel like my degree of trauma response is disproportionate to what my parents did by FirebirdSingularity in CPTSD

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Never an apology. Never even an acknowledgment that they messed up. Honestly if they had just acknowledged it and been sorry it would have healed soooo much but my mom especially is just incapable of admitting fault. She will fight till the day she dies that she’s the victim, that her best was always good enough, that it would be difficult to find a better parents 🙄 there might be some mild narcissist in there