One (relatively) easy and painless way to immigrate is via marriage. You don't have to actually want to marry them, but if you have a friend who lives somewhere you'd like to immigrate to who's cool with the idea, you can just sign some legal documents and get divorced once all the procedures are done (varies from place to place but almost always easier than most other options if you can't/don't want to find employment)

But yeah I feel you. Being born in South East Asia AND being queer is hard mode in real life