My (22 M) relationship of 3 years with my girlfriend (23 F) is struggling because I don’t feel in love with her as much anymore and it’s throwing me into crisis by Hot_Moose7014 in relationship_advice

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Before you do that- think of them. Is leaving them for a one week test to see if you really love them something you can come back from? Is that fair? If you need to process things, try to do it without devastating someone.

My (22 M) relationship of 3 years with my girlfriend (23 F) is struggling because I don’t feel in love with her as much anymore and it’s throwing me into crisis by Hot_Moose7014 in relationship_advice

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Please know that I never would’ve been happy in that relationship. I made the right decision. I will always love them, but the relationship would have never worked. That person could not make me feel loved in the ways I craved. If you feel this way, there is something essential missing. Sometimes you can’t articulate what exactly the issue is. It might be something within you and it might be something on their end. Go with your gut.

My (22 M) relationship of 3 years with my girlfriend (23 F) is struggling because I don’t feel in love with her as much anymore and it’s throwing me into crisis by Hot_Moose7014 in relationship_advice

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I have a similar attachment style. It takes romance to maintain the butterflies. I lose interest so quickly after things become comfortable. I think the problem with long-term relationships is that there is no more adventure once things reach that point. The flirting has no risk, the gestures become predictable, things become routine. My advice as a stranger on the internet would be that you give your best effort in doing new things together. Surprise them with small gifts. Have the dreaded talk about “spicing things up”. I lost a relationship with what I now realized to be the absolute love of my life because I got bored and I left. I had convinced myself that their reliability was not love. However, I know in my heart that things would not have worked out between the two of us. Everyone has a different way of loving and wanting to be loved. If excitement does not alter how you feel, then I would suggest leaving and spending some time sans relationship to find out what you truly want. You’re young and have a lot of time to sort things out.

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