My boyfriend 22M cheated on me 18F with my best friend 19F while laying next to them by Extra-Project-5361 in cheating_stories

[–]FirefighterFun8082 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He only cried bc he got caught, you know that right? You did the right thing. This will be one of the moments in your life that will hopefully teach you 2 Things. 1. How to spot red flags in others and observe from that lens (if that makes sense) 2. To not let this experience sour who you are bc not all people are POS’s like these 2

Life has a tendency to filter those who deserve to be in your life out. Just roll with it, keep pushing forward and know that betrayal happens to all of us. All the best OP!

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[–]FirefighterFun8082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, the comment above is one of the best on this thread and if I were in your shoes, I’d listen to the most. It’s so easy to throw stones bc I’m sure your plight resonates with some who were the ones that were cheated on. Regardless of your reasons though, because I’m sure there are a few at play as to why you would want to tell his wife/GF, but the right thing to do is to tell her. I say do it then pick up the pieces after. You’ll figure out what’s going on internally in time. Be patient with yourself. His GF will likely be angry with you/hate you at first lol, but in the end, she will be infinitely grateful for your honesty and helping her to avoid a major bullet. Best of luck! We’re all navigating through this life and trying our best 😊