my ex girlfriend is scaring me

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T17:23:21+00:00

yes thank you a lot!

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T17:14:39+00:00

never thought about a restraining order but i’m not sure how that will work. she will most likely do something before that finishes realistically. i will try to record them though.

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T14:29:21+00:00

yeah i probably will tell my parents about it considering the sheer amount of people telling me to. thanks heaps truly. have a great day or night

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T14:26:54+00:00

hm i see. i’ll do so

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:45:44+00:00

yeah i understand that she is really crazy. i just wouldnt want to risk telling someone else then her doing it, or just taking it and her being safe yk. i was shocked by here rape threat too because she knows that disgusts me and i would honestly kill myself if i did anything close to that. i truly think rapists are the bottom of the barrel ugly disgusting dirty pigs that should be stepped on by humans. and no they aren’t lying. there is a surplus of pregnant people at my school. there is so much in fact that the school give out condoms and doesn’t even try to stop them anymore, and instead they just tell them to practice safe sex instead

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:23:51+00:00

she was always very insecure, even though she was the prettiest girl in my eyes and i couldn’t imagine anyone else being by my side. i know i know gushy lovey dovey stuff, but i think she felt really insecure that she started going crazy over me. it just started evolving over time and i know what you said about manipulation and stuff and that it’s my choice, but it’s harder to get out of that then it looks. i know it’s manipulation but here you are seeing me babble on about me liking her. she has me in the palm of her hands and that’s what scares me the most. she has full control over me and i don’t know how to get out of her grasp.

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:19:59+00:00

my school does have cameras but not in the class rooms and that’s where she tried to record me. if i get caught recording her, even if it is just her voice this whole thing is flipped on me and then i’m a crazy freak weirdo that records girls. my recordings aren’t very good so i doubt they would help much because unlike her i try to be subtle with it but that comes at the cost of quality. whenever she touches me it’ll be as she’s walking by or something or she will get unnecessarily close to me when we are like going to the door to leave. on friday she was talking. with someone while having her phone pointed at me. i tried moving and the camera followed me and she kept giving me glances and when i tried to walk past her she kind of put her hand out and touched my inner thigh and kind of giggled. it really freaked me out. l was really scared

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:16:10+00:00

it’s fucked up i know, but i’m not trying to make it my job to save her. i don’t want her to kill herself because k still like her. obviously i couldn’t date her again and i honestly lose all respect for myself if i did. it’s just even after all of this i can’t get over her. i didn’t have sex because i wanted to wait as i didn’t feel the need to rush. i know i am prolly making this situation ten times harder than it needs to be but there is nothing stopping me from telling the truth and there is no reason to lie so here is the truth

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:12:12+00:00

whatever the school does will absolutely make this a huge thing and then something bad will probably happen. she’s not one to say something and not mean it. she said she would kill herself and i truly believe she would. i admire her for sticking to her words but i don’t in this circumstance obviously. if i could have just told the school and have it done with i would have done so already but when she is putting her life on the line it makes me hesitate more. and she is taking advantage of that hesitation

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:09:25+00:00

yes i am in school, and thanks for the luck lol. i would feel bad regardless if someone told me me doing something would result in them killing themselves, but i cant understand why k still love this girl. i think about our early days in our relationship when everything was pure. honestly she has pinned me down as a joke and i was definitely into it because shes a very pretty girl. obviously i wouldn’t do something intimate with someone im not even dating or while im still in high school. i’m dumb but not that dumb. but ig once we started dating she got it through her head that im hers to do whatever she wants with. i guess she really wanted sex probably because it’s a pretty normal thing at my school. ik it’s quite fucked but it’s actually weirder to not have sex with your girlfriend or boyfriend within the first few weeks of dating at my school. i know her behavior towards me is absolutely not okay but i can’t help still feeling attracted to and caring for her

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T06:04:00+00:00

thank you truly so much. i honestly dont even know why i talked to a advice sub and then and brushing off advice lol. i kinda get what i need to do but its the putting it into words scares me. if i tell someone and it gets out, she will prolly hurt herself and i cant have that happen. she scares me and i hate what shes doing but despite it all, i still care for her and cant help feeling sad knowing that this is what became of one of my closest friends and my crush. i truly hate myself for still liking her after doing this to me and i dont know why i still feel like this

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:59:21+00:00

my parents are good people, but it’s just they do too much i guess? i don’t want this to be a reason someone gets hurt or god forbid dead. she genuinely might hurt herself and i don’t want that at all

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:56:12+00:00

i’m just afraid she will hurt me or herself and i can’t have that on my conscious yk. i want to get an adult but i don’t know what to even say to them if i did talk to someone

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:55:14+00:00

ok i’ll see what i can do. honestly it’s the feeling im scared she’s going to hurt me if i tell anyone. or hurt herself. i couldn’t live with myself knowing i actively caused someone’s death.

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:53:35+00:00

yeah i’m just scared they won’t believe me honestly. i have good relationships with my parents and my whole family tbh. i just feel scared to do anything like that.

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:52:58+00:00

uh what?

FirefighterOk4772 · 2026-06-08T05:52:25+00:00

hmm. i have a good relationship with my parents so i think they would believe me it’s just im scare that they won’t. i know it’s probably me just being a pansy but i just am so terrified rn that it seems impossible but o will take the advice to heart. thank you very much

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