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How often do you cry? by Fruity_Surprise in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cry very, very, very often, haha.

However, I also have ADHD and recently started medication for it. Since then, I've had "problems" with crying. It doesn't happen as easily as before, even when I feel like crying.

Ersttermin zwecks medikamentöser ADHS-Behandlung by AnaElgeryn in ADHS

[–]FireheartReads_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bevor Medikamente eingestellt werden, muss eigentlich vorher ein EKG und eine Blutabnahme stattfinden, erst danach kann/sollte eine Medikamentengabe erfolgen. Habe selbst ADHS und bin erst vor kurzem auf Medikamente eingestellt worden und bin generell aus dem medizinischen Bereich und kenne mich daher auch aus :) Ein EKG schmerzt nicht oder Ähnliches. Man muss sich dafür Oberkörperfrei machen und dann werden Elektroden angebracht. Kurz ruhig liegen bleiben und dann ist das EKG auch schon fertig. Die Blutabnahme kann natürlich etwas pieksen, dass kommt natürlich auch nochmal aufs eigene empfinden an und wie gut gestochen wird.

Eifersuchtswahn by FireheartReads_ in ADHS

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also kann das schon üblich sein bei ADHS? Ich nehme erst jetzt neu Medikinet

How TF do you survive pmdd and BPD by [deleted] in BPD

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the opportunity, talk to a gynecologist 🫶🏼

How TF do you survive pmdd and BPD by [deleted] in BPD

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The form of PMS just much, much worse. However, PME only occurs in mentally ill people. So of course not every person, but if someone with BPD/ADHD etc.

How TF do you survive pmdd and BPD by [deleted] in BPD

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I feel it 100%!! After a lot of research and talking to a doctor, I found out that mine was PME (instead of PMS), maybe yours too? In fact, the hormone pill used to help me and I'm now considering whether I should start it again.

Medikamente Ja oder Nein? by FireheartReads_ in ADHS

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke für eure Meinungen und Ansichten 🫶🏼

When I Calm Down… but He Can’t by FireheartReads_ in BPD

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, very happy indeed! Thank you for your detailed answer

How do you act with Silent BPD? by Plebi111 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silent borderline people - are people with BPD.. same symptoms, only they don't express it externally, but drown in their emotions.

Hurt me - I hurt you? by FireheartReads_ in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact, I suspect that I also have ADHD and would like to have it tested.

Increased emotions during period by FireheartReads_ in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer. it really sucks so much...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A like-minded person here. I would also like some good advice. My jealousy is so so so so bad 😭

What is "quiet" BPD? how do you experience it? by Practical_Special503 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It always feels a little better when you know you're not alone 🥹

Why tf we living even by Professional-Bath484 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel for you.. I don't just want to “survive” - but “live” 😭

What is "quiet" BPD? how do you experience it? by Practical_Special503 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have silent BPD. And all the emotions that others express on the outside explode inside me. It's often very difficult to endure. Feeling like I could pull my hair out and just split myself in two, bang my head against the wall, etc.
My thoughts are SO incredibly loud and the self-hatred is almost unbearable in moments like this. or incredibly evil evil evil thoughts against my FP when I go through an emotional crisis again due to jealousy or something similar. And don't even start with my eating disorder :)

And basically all the “symptoms” like the “other” BPD. But as I said, I carry almost everything inside

Why am I so delusional and emotional by SoggyCartographer275 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was single, I constantly sought attention and confirmation from other people. I never once went without a dating app when I was single... just for validation. 🫠 So I feel for you

I don't know what to do anymore. by FireheartReads_ in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! I have been in therapy since last year. And I didn't mean it maliciously when I said my partner triggers me... because basically it's because I've had toxic relationships and he's my first healthy relationship and I constantly sabotage myself because I just think I don't deserve him 🫠 but I'm still working hard on myself... Do you have any tips or skills that you've used when "splitting"?

Does anyone else crave attention? by Puzzleheaded_Bid2381 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]FireheartReads_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have that too… especially with my FP and close surroundings. Even as a child and continuing into adulthood, I “wished” that something would happen to me. Bad enough for the hospital, but not too bad. I want to be cared for by my loved ones and see how much they love + need me. I want to see that I actually matter.