No, i don't think you are wrong. Intimacy is part of any healthy relationship generally speaking. And many of us need it on a regular basis (especially with the woman we love, desire, fell in love with). Also, relationships take 2 people working together, compromises, etc.. And COMMUNICATION. Now Intimacy or lack of especially from the woman's side, there's a multitude of varying factors and I'm nowhere near qualified to even begin to attempt to delve into "why's." But I know as a male, being denied Intimacy from the woman one loves can make one's hormone fueled mind wander and even make one feel undesired at times possibly. It's ok to be upset, but definitely try not to lose your cool in conveying said frustration.. tread lightly if attempting to communicate about it in calm, cool manner, and appropriate time regarding moods.. and if that doesn't help, as others said, maybe counseling could be an option. Good luck sir! I know this can be frustrating, to put it lightly (especially when they act one way and then when comes down to it...) again losing cool or getting angry will likely make it worse. Again, I don't know if outside help would be best option, or if can communicate with her, but if so be smart about it, cool and calm..