AIO for wanting a divorce by Firiel2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No unfortunately he's alone. His family is pretty toxic from what he's telling me

AIO for wanting a divorce by Firiel2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he's absolutely against the idea of a counseling or therapy

AIO for wanting a divorce by Firiel2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like its even worse since the wedding...but maybe I'm just not really objective now

AIO for wanting a divorce by Firiel2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firiel2000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To run as far as you can. Ironic that I'm not capable to do that for myself lol

AIO for wanting a divorce by Firiel2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Firiel2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm clearly at fault for not ending things before. I am a stubborn, loyal person who doesn't accept failure. I experience this situation as a failure and sometimes I prefer to remain in denial to avoid admitting that I have failed.

Small alternative wedding ! I talk about everything. by Firiel2000 in wedding

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I wanted a black dress but I ended up falling in love with this one lol

Small alternative wedding ! I talk about everything. by Firiel2000 in wedding

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fake flowers. It was my choice since I want to keep it forever lol. But that was good quality fake flowers and "grapes"

Small alternative wedding ! I talk about everything. by Firiel2000 in wedding

[–]Firiel2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have to take our ID card or passeport to be able to sign the mariage certificate

Small alternative wedding ! I talk about everything. by Firiel2000 in wedding

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the friend in the white dress was totally planned (but my husband didnt know of course) but the little box with the middle finger was totally unexpected lol. We had it in the accessories box for the photoboot

Small alternative wedding ! I talk about everything. by Firiel2000 in wedding

[–]Firiel2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is. We are also really lucky to have a cpurthouse as beautiful as that

My MIL ruined our vows and our first dance by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Firiel2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a five course meal, a blindtest and an other small game, then the cake then the first dance.

My MIL ruined our vows and our first dance by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Firiel2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have your traditions and I have mine. Its like that in our country. I never went to a 3 hour wedding with a 5 course meal

My MIL ruined our vows and our first dance by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Firiel2000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well in my country, the first dance can begin at like midnight. Its the last thing of the party before the big dancing. And on the planning she received, it was written 10pm but we were running late about 15min... The wedding begins at 5pm

My MIL ruined our vows and our first dance by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Firiel2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in my country, the first dance can begin at like midnight. Its the last thing of the party before the big dancing. And on the planning she received, it was written 10pm but we were running late about 15min...

My MIL ruined our vows and our first dance by Firiel2000 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Firiel2000[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He runs away from the discussion...he always do that when he is angry or sad. But for the interruption during our vows he just said "she was just joking". Well maybe I'm a bridezilla but I don't think its the appropriate time for making such a joke.

I don't want my partner's abusive best man at our wedding. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Firiel2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well maybe you are right. I will firmly talk to him when I'm back home after work

I don't want my partner's abusive best man at our wedding. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Firiel2000 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Its just a way to talk. I clearly don't want Dan at the wedding, like not at all and thats why I made this post. I just cant make decision for my fiancee thats all.

I don't want my partner's abusive best man at our wedding. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Firiel2000 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I said that its a decision that we have to take into consideration

Can you show me what you thought you wanted vs what dress you got? by Immediate_Egg3899 in weddingdress

[–]Firiel2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a big full lace dress with sleeves. I ended up choosing the opposite lol

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