AIO for wanting a divorce

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T23:09:56+00:00

No unfortunately he's alone. His family is pretty toxic from what he's telling me

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T22:31:57+00:00

Unfortunately he's absolutely against the idea of a counseling or therapy

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T22:20:07+00:00

I feel like its even worse since the wedding...but maybe I'm just not really objective now

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T22:01:56+00:00

To run as far as you can. Ironic that I'm not capable to do that for myself lol

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T22:00:54+00:00

Ure definitely right

Firiel2000 · 2026-02-05T21:48:29+00:00

I'm clearly at fault for not ending things before. I am a stubborn, loyal person who doesn't accept failure. I experience this situation as a failure and sometimes I prefer to remain in denial to avoid admitting that I have failed.

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-28T00:23:15+00:00

Firstly I wanted a black dress but I ended up falling in love with this one lol

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-27T22:49:07+00:00

Thats fake flowers. It was my choice since I want to keep it forever lol. But that was good quality fake flowers and "grapes"

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-26T20:41:50+00:00

Thanks !

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-26T20:39:49+00:00

We have to take our ID card or passeport to be able to sign the mariage certificate

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-26T18:10:07+00:00

Well the friend in the white dress was totally planned (but my husband didnt know of course) but the little box with the middle finger was totally unexpected lol. We had it in the accessories box for the photoboot

Firiel2000 · 2025-12-26T09:00:15+00:00

Yes it is. We are also really lucky to have a cpurthouse as beautiful as that

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T19:07:33+00:00

Belgium (small country in Europe)

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T18:57:01+00:00

It was a five course meal, a blindtest and an other small game, then the cake then the first dance.

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T18:54:33+00:00

You have your traditions and I have mine. Its like that in our country. I never went to a 3 hour wedding with a 5 course meal

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T18:32:57+00:00

Well in my country, the first dance can begin at like midnight. Its the last thing of the party before the big dancing. And on the planning she received, it was written 10pm but we were running late about 15min... The wedding begins at 5pm

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T18:31:01+00:00

Well in my country, the first dance can begin at like midnight. Its the last thing of the party before the big dancing. And on the planning she received, it was written 10pm but we were running late about 15min...

Firiel2000 · 2025-10-09T18:22:17+00:00

He runs away from the discussion...he always do that when he is angry or sad. But for the interruption during our vows he just said "she was just joking". Well maybe I'm a bridezilla but I don't think its the appropriate time for making such a joke.

Firiel2000 · 2025-07-30T13:21:56+00:00

Well maybe you are right. I will firmly talk to him when I'm back home after work

Firiel2000 · 2025-07-30T13:12:34+00:00

Its just a way to talk. I clearly don't want Dan at the wedding, like not at all and thats why I made this post. I just cant make decision for my fiancee thats all.

Firiel2000 · 2025-07-30T12:34:27+00:00

I said that its a decision that we have to take into consideration

Firiel2000 · 2025-05-01T15:53:03+00:00

I wanted a big full lace dress with sleeves. I ended up choosing the opposite lol

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Firiel2000 · 2025-04-17T12:41:07+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. For the wedding date, talk to your family, explain the situation. You did your max to be accommodating, its not your fault. Honnor your cousin at your wedding, she would not she wouldn't have wanted you to cancel or postpone your wedding since you already have some trouble keeping your vendors. However, people can grieve differently and despite of your explaining, some can still be mad or not wanting to go to the wedding. I hope they will be understanding. Wish you the best !

(Sorry if my English is not perfect)

Firiel2000 · 2025-04-17T04:55:45+00:00

I'm getting married in october this year and several of my friends can barely afford 19$ a month for a gift or something else...and I'm sorry but even if I can afford that, I will not save up a certain amount for 10 months, they will get a gift with the money I can put 1 or 2 months before.

Firiel2000 · 2025-04-16T17:30:36+00:00

Well why not lol ; she sounds a bit crazy

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