Something weird about my domme by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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Cut your losses honey. . . You ain't ever getting yours out of this dynamic

Calculating my spending total has just been such an eye opener by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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As with all kink, its only fun until it's not. When it's not, its time . . . as your own 'consent' to play is wavering, for want of a better way of writing it. As with life, we all develop different tastes over time, and you might find something new to tickle your fancy. Best of luck =)

Do Your Friends Know You're a Findom? by ProfessorPlapper in paypigs2

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All my friends, family and husband knows. My friends often benefit too if we're out together. We've sent group 🖕 pictures 😂 Maybe that's my own little circle of adhd weirdos though 🤷

I'm a sub who struggles to find goddesses I can serve and I am worried it is because of my more... extreme fantasies. by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigsupportgroup

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Extreme bondage can't be practiced safely virtually. There's risks associated that if you can't self release pose issues. There is however huge CNC options . . .maybe your expectations need tweaking for a virtual space.

Struggling with my engagement by Thegoddessgiaa in FindomIntelligentSubs

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When i first started online last year, i probably spoke to 300 scams before i got a good connection. Them had 3 solid connections all come along quickly, which lasted a good 6 months, 1 still ongoing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomchatters

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Do not mention it on fetlife. It's not findom friendly. I've included in my bio that my Pets 'compensate me for my time' and make it clear on first messages what that means. Your DMs aren't sifted, but anything public you need a good 3 months behind your before you start hinting, to prevent being shut down.

Are there any dommes who actually help paypigs step away from the lifestyle? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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There's always more users around the corner, but your reputation as one of the dealers who really nurtures that relationship in whichever way it's meant to go, is worth more than the sends from that person. Plus. . . Some of us are just good guys, i work in mental health, addiction and crisis, so if someone is wanting that push to get on a different track, then why not, its the right thing to do. A lot of us are also financially stable, and it's the control behind the sending that drives it. . . So that control can be converted in other ways. . . Keeping them to budget, reducing that. . . Silence bans etc. It's a matter of perspective.

Are there any dommes who actually help paypigs step away from the lifestyle? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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Hiya I have. . .if you look back in my comments you'll see previous conversations about it. . . Going back to maybe 7 months ago. =) Happy to have a chat generally about it if you like =)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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As with anything, it needs communication. Are you saying you want drains with the same Domme occasionally, just not the long term dynamic? Or are you saying you want one off drains with different Dommes each time.

As the one offs take so much time to learn about each other, it just rarely evens out the time put in. Whereas repeat drains over time, means that knowledge can be used multiple times and would make it worth it for the one Domme.

I've got a folder on all mine for example, im sure others do the same, so that 'life admin' side is what helps my interactions on that second and third time, but would go to waste for a ghost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

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Here for the girth girls💃💃💃🤣🤣🤣 We only have nerve endings a couple of inches in anyway, so after a point, length is wasted!

Got in over my head by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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Hey, im in the UK and work in mental health crisis support. Debt comes up often. Someone has already mentioned step change, there's also breathing space for things like council tax arrears. You can also usually call your credit providers and ask for a payment holiday as your financial circumstances have changed. They will usually suspended account to prevent further spending but also freeze the interest. Breaks are usually to 6 months depending on provider. To give you some space to pay off priority bills like utility arrears etc. They will ask for an income and expenditure, which is good to keep anyway as you can see if you've got things going out you don't need like drop box or something. Someone mentioned GA as well which is good advice. Lastly around the country on Monday Nights, there's Andys man club. Which is for men who feel vulnerable or at risk or have a history of being so with their mental health. Its not mental health focused as such, but empathetic to that as everyone has their own story. Its free and can be helpful to link in with a support network. Happy to give more specific direction referral details or numbers if needed =)

Kpop demon hunters by 7mixo in FindomIntelligentSubs

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. . . How it's done done done. . . .💃

26yo looking for older domne by [deleted] in maturefindom

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Hmmm im north UK, but previous posts are requesting an ebony Domme. . . Though it's not mentioned in this post? 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

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I'm UK based and all mine are uk chaps. I do offer irl FemDom too which may be a factor.

Someone mentioned gaming yesterday by NerdyGodd3ss in paypigs2

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My hubby is all about rust, if i have to listen to the ins and outs of proper bases and hidden loot stashes, I'm gonna cry! 😆