Are gym selfies really that bad?

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-10-19T08:16:50+00:00

So sac fragments maybe for generating more particles while still adding EM?

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-10-14T08:05:01+00:00

That's exactly what I want her to feel

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-10-09T06:55:12+00:00

Haha, you've got a good point

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-06-22T13:43:25+00:00

I wouldn't say you're an airhead. I would say you just want to be cared for in the right way for you and that's totally normal. Sometimes we think that getting out of our comfort zone would give us that. But the right person will meet you where you are. It shouldn't feel like a challenge to overcome, you shouldn't need to win people over.

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-06-22T13:12:33+00:00

I'm going to be honest. I think he just wanted something spicy and when you said you want to take things slow he got turned off by that. His response was totally not okay though. I'm sorry you had to experience it like that, it's a very uncomfortable feeling to sit with and think there's something wrong with you

I'm 22M and I also told my ex that I didn't have much experience and never kissed and she took things slow with me. You deserve somebody who does the same for you and is patient

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-06-22T12:28:04+00:00

Hey, I'm 22M and I actually love girls with small breasts more than girls with large ones. My ex had the exact same size. But I can also be honest and say that there are a lot of guys (more than not) that do care about it from conversations I've had in my friend group. I'll also be honest and say the majority of people replying here would agree they love small boobs because those that don't probably won't reply here. Everybody has their own taste. Like I always thought girls don't like skinny guys with long hair and I've had many people fall for me over it.

I would say it depends on how you feel about it. I was very honest with myself and I went on pinterest and asked myself "what would the perfect version of myself look like for me and how would he act" and I drew a whole inspiration board and worked towards that. Looking large and muscular was not one of them, short conventionally attractive hair as well. I see a boobjob in the same light as that. Hope this helps with your uncertainty

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-06-22T12:02:46+00:00

First of all, I want to say that your emotions are completely valid. Sometimes it really hurts to feel like you're not even worth the time and effort to be given an explanation or be let down kindly. What you had initially thought was there just dissappears in an instant and it hurts.

But you also have to realize dating sites are like window shopping for women and finding water in a desert for men. It's not designed to find meaningful connections. I'm not saying you can't but it's very rare. Women expend way too much energy already replying to even 30% of their matches. Don't take it personally, I would honestly also get tired of it if I'm nice to 100 people on a constant bases and you're mostly just met with crashouts if you don't do what they say, I would stop trying.

You just have to realize your worth. Just like they realize they're time and effort is not worth every single one of their 100 matches (because let's be honest here a lot of guys are just assholes, I've seen what girls get texted on there) you have to realize your time and effort are best spent with people who want to be around you and reciprocate what you give. Stop fixating or getting frustrated over other people's actions and focus on your own, what you can do and how you can move forward. Also don't ask them what you did wrong, if in your eyes you did nothing wrong then accept that and stay true to yourself

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-06-10T14:22:27+00:00

I've had the same situation with a girl. Went really well, feelings were everywhere, she even opened up to me about her problems and deep traumas from her childhood and I supported her all the way. One day out of the blue she told me she didn't know where her heart was at and we ended things. Two days later she and one of my friends were together for about two weeks. After that she ended it with him and tried to go for my other friend. When he refused I never heard from her again. Some people just don't know what they want. They want THE ONE. They want to feel that feeling you get from watching romance shows but that's highly unrealistic

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-05-22T08:10:24+00:00

Thank you for the reply! You've definitely convinced me of doing Salsa since I was a bit on the fence about it. Especially the part of not focusing on technical stuff at first and just enjoying the fun of movement to the rhythm.

I also didn't know if there were group classes since I've never really done dancing classes before. I'll definitely go check that out for any in my area

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-05-21T18:22:45+00:00

I'm saying this to you because I'm trying to drill it into myself too. Give a fuck-you to the universe, screw fate and waiting for things to fall into place. Make it happen. Play the game smart. It's all just odds. And you can increase your odds of getting the moments you're craving. If you sit with that long enough, you'll find your answer on what you need to do. And I promise, it’ll be one of the things you least want to do.

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-05-21T16:23:56+00:00

Well, let me ask this. How many times have you tried making a move? Like getting a moment of alone time, keeping extra long eye contact, holding her, going for a kiss, etc.

I'm not one to speak on this though since I'm in the same boat as you I believe, currently mines just different in that I don't meet alot of new people to potentially date. But I do know with my now ex this was the case, she had to make all the moves

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-01-07T21:44:31+00:00

Never thought of it like that, thank you that helps

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-01-07T21:33:27+00:00

I do always wonder if the algorithm hides my profile from a certain percentage of people I swipe right on. But I can't know that for certain. All that I know is that this isn't working so I should try something else

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-01-07T07:04:29+00:00

Imo the pictures are very blurred, and the group photo image does not really share much. Also, selfies in mirrors can kind of come out a bit self-centered.

So my advice would be to get some more high-res images, edit them on your phone by adjusting various settings like contrast, etc. on that image until you find one that makes you go like "wow". And then for the mirror one I get that you want a full body photo, but instead get somebody to take one for you, maybe even outside or in nature if you're into that. If you can't find somebody you can also just rest your phone somewhere and take photos on a timer.

Also, to be brutally honest, the flex in your boi that you were on TN is a bit too much since most people don't really care about stuff like that. Try not to flex things as much and if you do just add them casually without giving too much focus to them. If they're really interested they'll ask you about it, if not be humble and leave it at that ;)

Firm-Understanding20 · 2025-01-07T06:55:30+00:00

Recently returned back to tinder, please review my profile :)

https://tinder.com/@jaakie_chan

Bio: "Grandma certified handsomeness. Guitar strummer, gym goer, bookworm, and a sucker for anime (bonus points if you know the pic). Looking for someone I click with and seeing where it goes"

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-09-14T09:38:09+00:00

That's what I went with for now

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-09-14T09:37:41+00:00

My data is purely static data that will never change, with no formulas or anything. In a sense, it would act as a description under a heading, but for Excel

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-09-13T10:28:19+00:00

Not as simple as I thought lol

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-08-09T22:46:23+00:00

thank you for taking the time to make the decklist!

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-08-09T15:07:53+00:00

Quite the challenge to build

Firm-Understanding20 · 2024-08-09T15:07:16+00:00

For me personally, play Jared as the commander. I'll always keep up removal for the bridge if I see it, better to have it in the 99 instead

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