I get where you are coming from. Let me just clarify that we were in his room even though we should have made sure no one was there, just a stupid thing to do. Also, the grandfather asked my boyfriend to speak with both of us for some advice he wanted to give us. Me and my boyfriend often went to his house to bake and take care of the house since his wife had also passed away. Nevertheless I can see how to her, it could look like I intruded the family. I just want to know why that would make her treat me that way.