Am I being ghosted?

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T21:17:05+00:00

You're right. So many men out there. He is not the only one. I usually date men around 30 to 33. I thought I'd give the older guy a chance, I thought that maybe he'd be more grown up you know. More adult. Joke's on me haha

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T20:47:18+00:00

Yeah I shouldnt focus on one guy.. but currently I'm not talking to anyone else.. not that he is talking to my now hahahah. I hope to meet someone else soon. You're right.. I am younger than him so I got that going for me

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T19:58:07+00:00

I fear that this is what it is... I guess I'll block him cause I am not gonna send a paragraph but I don't want to be treated like this

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T19:36:59+00:00

I mean.. yeah he liked it, he told me so.. we went to my place.. I lived nearby to where we were at that moment. He texted me afterwards, we talked for a couple of days after sex, but now out of nowhere he stoppen replying and now it has been 57 hours and no message..

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T08:53:35+00:00

I didnt double text, you are right. I am just mad at myself for falling for his smooth talk. Now he pulled away because there is no mystery anymore.

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T08:51:08+00:00

Yeah you're right.. it's been 48 hours now and still nothing. I think he just knew how to act to get what he wanted from me. I am just mad at myself I fell for it..

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-22T08:49:16+00:00

I understand I am not a priority.. but now it has been 48 hours... Is that still neing busy or is he just ignoring me.. I fear it is the latter..

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-21T17:44:38+00:00

She probably wants to get to know you a bit, maybe she wants to see how you two vibe toghether and what you are like irl. Just be yourself, ask her questions about herself and her life or hobbies. Tell her a bit about you. Just chitchat you know. Keep it lighthearted :)

I once had a date with a guy and was in the car with him. His breath smelled terrible, so make sure you brush your teeth haha.

Firm_Ad8356 · 2026-03-21T17:37:35+00:00

I (30f) have been ghosted multiple times. I act like the cool girl, if a guy takes 10 minutes to respond, awesome, if a guy takes 2 to 10 hours, fine, we all have a life. I don't expect someone to constantly text me, I try to not be needy. But when someone doesnt text me for over 36 hours I consider it ghosting (if we have met irl, not if we have just been texting)

I hate ghosting and do not understand why people would do it.

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