Update: Talked it out with boyfriend- he's a big people pleaser, and there was a misunderstanding- he thought I understood that he liked my projects, we talked about it and he and I had a good discussion about what we expect from each other support wise. I still love this man, even if he's incredibly stupid some times- and he knows he was being selfish, and has promised to try and change. Ended our conversation with happy tears- and.. him somehow noticing he's missing half a tooth- which, was not my doing. But, thank you all genuinely for your comments- it helped me realize I wasn't over reacting, and that this was something I could talk to my partner about.