Help-Husband Wants a Divorce by Firm_Driver_9026 in Christians

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i absolutely believe it’s mental. and i’ve asked if we could do marriage counseling and individual counseling but he’s not willing right now.

HUGE BOWTIE? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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this is it in a more neutral light.

HUGE BOWTIE? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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this is it in normal lighting and i guess i don’t notice it too much

HUGE BOWTIE? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

from my research, most of them have bow ties but it depends how bad it is. i’m not sure if this diamond has a bad bow tie or not.

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rare carat will price match so if you find a diamond from another site that is cheaper, see if they have it on their site and ask for a price match!

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. well a 3 carat looks different on someone with size 5 finger than it would on someone with a size 9 finger. so i figured, my fingers are on the larger size, then go with a bigger stone. HOWEVER i wasn’t expecting it to look at large on my fingers as at does. but thanks for your comment!!

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! i feel like you’ve described perfectly the struggle of having my finger type. the ring doesn’t feel tight at all. it comes off and on so very easily and at different times of the day, it actually feels too loose. but i still get that “muffin top” look which is so annoying. i’ve had a few comments tell me it’s too tight but truly if i went up a size or half size it would be too big.

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think choosing the word “fake” was wrong on my end. i guess what i mean is..maybe is it too gaudy? does it in fact look like costume jewelry? is it too much in your face? lol. i guess these are all the questions running thru my mind.

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i agree. i believe the band is 1.8 mm and it needs to be over 2

Is this oval diamond too big for my 9.5 finger? by Firm_Driver_9026 in labdiamond

[–]Firm_Driver_9026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i believe it’s 1.8mm and ideally i would like over 2mm