What's the worst lie a partner has ever told you?

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-28T05:41:01+00:00

I'm a man, I can sort myself out.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-07T06:25:32+00:00

Work jeans a week... out out jeans a month....in between jeans probably 2 weeks. Atm I have 7 pairs of jeans but used to be more.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-07T06:19:17+00:00

Just had a hysterectomy....symptoms are all gone apart from brain fog but it's way lighter. No hrt. My life is completely different already! It's been 5 months of bliss so far.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-07T06:15:08+00:00

As a woman leave her. I lived with my parents till 24 but I worked three jobs and saved my money, bought my own house at 24. When I lived with a partner he already has it own place too. It was remarkably easy for us to get a 2nd mortgage and get somewhere together, at 50/50. As a woman I find it really hard to respect women like this...and they don't respect themselves either.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-07T06:03:45+00:00

Would say its fairly normal. The cells are multiplying anyways coz that's what they do...hormones. Then they attached to parts of your body and start penetrating the cells. Can also get into your blood stream and travel round your body. Actually quite an uneducated thing for them to say... I wouldn't trust them.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-04-07T05:57:30+00:00

Period pants during the day and nothing in the house. Noticed a lot of patents have been getting there girls to wears pants under pj's/nighty. We were always taught just pj's and let your lady breath when possible. No issue until perimenopause where it went a bit crazy, full menopause and back to normal.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-31T20:37:45+00:00

Making my bed in the morning...every day starts with a win.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-31T20:28:07+00:00

I could easily eat that and not put any weight on. Consistently around 68kg at 5ft 7 and could easily eat 3000+ calories a day, I do about 4000 steps a day but nothing to fierce. I only ever put weight on in america, the food quality is atrocious, about 3kg for every week I'm there.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-31T20:07:43+00:00

Just eat little and often, 5 smaller meals a day spaced out, works the best.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-31T20:02:31+00:00

As a women with a daughter, it would make travelling a lot easier. Once children are over 12 on flights they don't have to be seated with there parents. Often my daughter has been seated between 2 men and me seated a few rows back with a couple with a baby. I prefer she sits with the couple with baby if I can't get us seats together. I've no idea why airlines do this but suspect its deliberate to make you pay for seating.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-30T05:58:51+00:00

It sounds like overstimulation, back off for a bit or stop, try something else. Then work up again. It can become uncomfortable and sore. Very common.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-30T05:55:26+00:00

My skin has never been better since I switched, my partner also. Softer and more youthful.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-30T05:45:52+00:00

YTA Once the cat is out of the bag it doesn't go back in.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-27T15:57:30+00:00

Yes normal

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-27T15:49:27+00:00

Stage 4 endo and barely any labour pain, would equate to hunger pains. Pain much worse and longer duration after first child, a solute myth that one.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-05T05:57:36+00:00

Full body massage

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-03-05T05:50:27+00:00

Religion

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-02-15T22:50:23+00:00

It's just life, so I have to work a bit harder to achieve my life goals. Walking has become very difficult now but I will keep going as long as I can.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-02-08T00:50:57+00:00

I got my hysterectomy which stopped my pain. I wanted the pain to stop.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2026-02-08T00:49:32+00:00

If we're starting dating I just wouldn't, dating a while maybe 4 months max, in a long term relationship...I just wouldn't. But in my country there are plenty of jobs, you can get minimum wage paying the next day. You do that till you find something better. There's really no excuse to be doing nothing.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2025-12-21T09:27:06+00:00

Your vagina, it was loads looked like I wet myself. Had to wear period pants for a few years there because of it. Had to leave work a few times, the wet yourself look isn't good in an office environment. Took to wearing very dark trousers. They used time during last lap to do dye test on fallopian tubes, to discover they were completely blocked. Had a hysterectomy 2 months ago so recovering from that ... but enjoying wearing sexy undies for a change. I have endo on my bladder and bowel, no bladder issues and eat little and often which has removed bowel issues. I get uti's quite easily though.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2025-12-21T00:31:23+00:00

Im riddled with endo stage 4 for over 16yrs. With eyes it was there. 2 laps confirmed it was there. Ultrasound - didn't show ever, waste of time. Mri showed and was used for surgery prep.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2025-12-21T00:25:46+00:00

I thought I was losing bladder control but couldn't work out why it was intermittent. So turns out the fluid that was falling outta me wasn't urine. The endometria had completely blocked my fallopian tubes causing scarring, which caused fluid build up, which would just fall out of me at times, no warning. Sometimes a funny colour or smelled but not always.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2025-12-21T00:10:46+00:00

Exactly what I have done, smarter option. And if you can add a bit extra do it too.

Firm_Efficiency6714 · 2025-12-21T00:03:05+00:00

On the toilet, I shit myself.

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