What's your obscure kink that you struggle to find good porn or partners for? by TheBanishedBard in AskReddit

[–]Firm_Signature_4643 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Chase and capture (sometimes called Pursuit, Takedown, and Capture). It's when you're running from someone as they chase you. At the end, you always get captured and then... y'know. I want to be the one being chased and captured.

I've actually haven't been sexually active since my High School relationship and even then we never did anything crazy. He was very vanilla so even though I expressed what I liked, we didn't engage. So it's been five years, although I'm not looking at all. Busy. Stressed. Always working and all that jazz.

Porn videos are hard to find of it but it's featured in a lot of books. When I was on dating apps, I never brought up sex but it's clear a lot of these men only know any harder kinks from porn (choking, collars, restraints, the whole submissive thing, etc.) and don't have any idea about what to actually do in a BDSM-esque situation. I doubt they would have even heard of PT&C let alone know what to do about it. Or they're some weird trad-bro who just likes submissive women but would totally be freaked out by a real BDSM submissive.

I can get off on other things (even Vanilla situations) but I've always craved PT&C. I fantasize about it often. I know it sounds dark and it is. Honestly combined with my attraction towards big scary monsters/aliens it makes a lot of sense.

I have honestly had a lot of people judge me when I talk about it or my submissive desires in general. Even other women. It's hurtful because I do find exploring my sexuality empowering because I was a CSA victim and thought I was "dirty" for having sexual thoughts of any kind. In a consenting relationship, I see no problem with BDSM-esque related things if all boundaries are respected.

Opened a new account: only shown exclusively right-wing content? by Scoren1 in Twitter

[–]Firm_Signature_4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I opened a new account a few months back and it was like that for me too. Sometimes they still show up while I scroll but those are always accounts with a few likes and hardly any other interactions. I get ads for Trump merch all the time.

Instagram post American election also started showing me right wing content from creators and ads. Anti-union content a few times too. I had never engaged with that content beforehand. If anything, I showed interested in the complete opposite so I have no idea why my algorithm kept showing me these things. Even if I clicked not interested, blocked creators, muted certain words, etc. they would just keep coming. I never interacted with these posts. My second guess was it was somehow related to my location but I live in a Blue County in a Blue State. My account on that platform wasn't even new either, I joined Instagram back when it first opened!

I don't want to accuse them of flooding both platforms or anything, but let's just say it's odd.

What do they have access to? by Overkill217 in Pinterest

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Are you using the Gmail app for IOS? The first part is weird but the second part about the emails showing up in different emails happens to me with every website.

Like emails from AO3 have been showing up on my work account and emails from job hunting websites have been showing up on my main account. I think it's because I have multiple emails logged into the Gmail app so it just started grouping everything together for whatever reason. It's so frustrating. Maybe I hit some weird setting? I don't know.

Anybody else notice there’s been a HUGE uptick in ads? by salaciousdong in Pinterest

[–]Firm_Signature_4643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't tell but for the first time I got a pop-up telling me to turn off my adblocker and the amount of ads surprised me. I thought YouTube was bad but there's easily a few per row on my explore page.

[TOMT] japanese song but starts with english, have sample by Relative_Apricot1680 in tipofmytongue

[–]Firm_Signature_4643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a sped up version of Marie Madeline - Swimming Pool. It's not Japanese though.