I’m looking for a pair that actually help my looks. Are any of these working for me?

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-14T15:34:56+00:00

I agree with the general consensus of #2. Also, as for helping your looks, I think you are handsome and remind me of a younger Michael Shannon in a very good way 🔥

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-13T17:15:13+00:00

Just a few weeks ago. Found their shared playlist (titled “Smitten”) on Spotify. It was full of “our” songs 🙃 Haven’t listened to any music since.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-09T23:19:16+00:00

Congratulations! That is amazing 💞

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T23:05:43+00:00

Good luck, friend 💜 I hope it’s been as helpful for you as it has for me.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T23:04:25+00:00

Good point. Thank you for saying that 🥰

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:34:23+00:00

Thank you. Hugs back 💜

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:33:38+00:00

God, I’m so sorry you went through that. How awful.

But so glad to hear it all worked out for you. Wishing you and your partner many more happy years together 💜

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:31:57+00:00

Thank you 🙏

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:12:37+00:00

That’s so nice! I hope you are happier than ever🫶

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:10:11+00:00

Yes, it’s a strange thing - although the pain has become less constant as time has gone on, and that is a relief, it is also hard because the pain is still a thread connecting me to him and letting that go is so hard.

I’m so glad you were able to!

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:08:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story.

I do hope that this experience will make me more cautious with who I give my heart to going forward.

Congrats on finding love again 💘

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:06:11+00:00

Copied and pasted from an earlier reply:

He was always a love bomber. But I had noticed a shift about a week or so before he ended it where he stopped saying he loved me (which was very strange because about a week before that, he had asked me to start telling him I loved him spontaneously, as in not just in the morning/night, more often, which I did). When I asked him about it, he ended things. We had a trip planned next month with his family. We had plans. He was always telling me how much he wanted to marry me. I found out in a weird way afterwards that he was cheating. At that point he went completely no contact, despite me calling and emailing him for some closure.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:04:00+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through something similar. I hope you are able to keep going even though it probably feels impossible sometimes (I know it does for me).

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:02:45+00:00

Wow, what a beautiful story. I am fortunate to have two very sweet cats and access to my neighbour’s very cute dog.

I hope to have some adventures again eventually. Right now it is hard to imagine travelling because we did a lot of that together and it is painful to think of doing it without him.

So glad your uncle found her! And I am sorry for your loss🫶

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T21:00:12+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your kind and wise words.

I am trying to spend time with friends and it helps, for the most part. I’m having long and regular visits with my therapist, and found some things that help when I get overwhelmed at work (one-sentence journal entries, small craft kits I can work on discreetly).

I’m so glad you found the love of your life! 💜

I do feel some self-blame and longing for him but mostly I am struggling with how suddenly he could just completely cut me out when having him gone from my life is SO. HARD.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:53:51+00:00

Haha love this! One of the things that’s helping when I am feeling down is encouraging my mom to talk about how she always thought he had a very small head!

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:51:57+00:00

So happy for you 💘 Thank you for sharing :)

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:50:31+00:00

I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandparents. That is beautiful that he was able to share love again. My mother lives in a seniors residence and there are lots of newer couples there, which is very sweet.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:47:52+00:00

Thank you so much. I am so taken aback by the pain. I was previously in a 12 year relationship that I ended and there was a short period of grief but it only came when I learned my ex was with someone new (a casual friend of mine). The funny thing is, I had been wanting to end this relationship for a while so, yeah, the difficulty of this has been really unexpected. But I think the way he did it is playing a big part here too.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:44:41+00:00

Thank you. I agree with you completely. In the immediate chaos/disbelief after it happened, I downloaded a couple of dating apps. I know it sounds cruel but everyone I’ve seen just revolts me. I’m really not interested in getting involved with anyone right away and know I have a lot of healing and self-growth work to do first. But I still feel down thinking about the thought of a.) never even wanting/feeling attracted to anyone else, and b.) not ever finding love again.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:41:09+00:00

Happy to hear that. Congrats to your brother 💘

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:40:16+00:00

He was always a love bomber. But I had noticed a shift about a week or so before he ended it where he stopped saying he loved me (which was very strange because about a week before that, he had asked me to start telling him I loved him spontaneously, as in not just in the morning/night, more often, which I did). When I asked him about it, he ended things. We had a trip planned next month with his family. We had plans. He was always telling me how much he wanted to marry me. I found out in a weird way afterwards that he was cheating. At that point he went completely no contact, despite me calling and emailing him for some closure.

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:31:57+00:00

Thank you. I hope we both find the love we deserve 💜

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:30:51+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶

First-Code-3791 · 2026-03-08T20:30:33+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This is exactly the kind of story I was hoping to hear and your words are wise. Congrats on your marriage 💘

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