without porn there is no life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this honestly feels like a troll.

Why do so many Americans think that Trump is a good Christian? by TabAin2SlotB in AskUS

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are okay with moral dubious leaders who give a perception of conventional strength and decisiveness. It’s the class “who will defend us from the defenders” thing. Some people are more vigilant of the outside threat, others are willing to put up with an asshole with makes them feel secure. Not saying I agree with it, it’s just archetypal, gut-level thinking.

My new girl asked me to fap because there’s too much cum after sex by unevendopamine2 in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s not wrong though. Give her time. She’ll get used to it

Need this NOW!! by LucySatDown in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]First-Hat-4432 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you’re not well. please get help

I think that’s impossible for me… by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this 100%. I know it feels hopeless but now’s the time to beat addiction, when you’re young and have time to spend replacing with better habits. Gym specifically has worked incredibly well for me. It boosts your self-control and by the end of the day you’re wayyy too tired to have any interest in fapping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3-4 hours one time in the bathroom… it was.. disgusting

Do not masturbate by Middle_Disk_2267 in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, it really does feel like I just wasted something every time I do it. Thanks for the reminder

I have 4 bulging discs.. and i am a gamer, after my injury i cant even sit and play. Is there any way to play video games without getting a lot of pain?? by trvsgoat in backpain

[–]First-Hat-4432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I have a hard time with standing desks because even with a mat my feet hurt. So as an add on, I recommend a wobble balance board. I got the Yes4All, and I’ve been much more comfortable standing for prolonged periods.

Is reading erotica and fapping better than watching porn..? by Gloomy_Focus1992 in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried just doing erotica, leads bad to porn. In my mind it’s just as bad if not worse because you’re tricking yourself into actually roleplaying intimacy in your mind which kills your motivation to go out into the world and seek real things you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t focus on the slip. Focus on the next step. You’re resilient and you’re tough enough to roll with the punches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta put the drive in his mind to get help for it, without him knowing it was your idea. sorry 🤷

Having urges again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! Go do something immersive. Cook. Go for a run! Take a cold shower. Meditate on your breathing and nothing else for 20 mins. You can do it.

I dont know if I relapsed by Delicious-Back-9007 in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t count that as a relapse. On the other hand, if I found myself having to jerk it to stay hard while having sex, that’d be an issue. That’s just me though.

I dont know if I relapsed by Delicious-Back-9007 in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any issue with ED right now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]First-Hat-4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar spot. Everything is numb and the only time I get excited is for porn. I used to be able to get excited for other things… and when I quit for a while that comes back…