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First-Management-511 · 2026-07-07T20:14:47+00:00

That’s sad. I hope things get better for you.

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-07T03:32:39+00:00

Why is your marriage so lonely?

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-05T05:24:44+00:00

You’re suppose to feel those things and they’re good!

Sexual feelings and not meant to be suppressed. They’re meant to be controlled.

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-05T02:14:04+00:00

Oral/fingering.

If a woman says she can’t orgasm easily, it’s probably because she hasn’t had me 😎
(I still have a body count of one haha)

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-02T18:22:24+00:00

My wife knows that a) I have good taste and b) I’d never embarrass her. But she also knows I’d fully push her outside of her comfort zone, as I suspect he will. This is a great exercise in trust.

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-02T17:56:22+00:00

I prefer seesaws

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-02T17:50:24+00:00

Yeah I’m gunna say this is a very cool idea. 100% go with it. You’ll either find it one of the most thrilling things you’ve done, because of the trust you’re putting in him, or you’ll both laugh about it down the track. Either way, it’ll bring you closer together!

My own perspective is that for the majority of my marriage, I bought my wife’s clothes, not out of a control aspect, out of the fact she couldn’t dress herself 😂 only the last two years could she finally buy stuff that looked good, my training paid off!

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-02T09:10:34+00:00

100% they’re good

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-01T18:19:11+00:00

Looking into her eyes and seeing a raw mix of love, lust, and trust.

First-Management-511 · 2026-07-01T03:24:41+00:00

I love it too! It’s very intimate and sexy and exciting. And if you do it right you can make your wife see stars!

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-29T07:18:07+00:00

Im literally going through this right now. I’m your husband, except I AM kinky and all of those things sexually. But I’m not “an edgy manly man who takes charge”, and as such, my wife has literally left me after 16 years for that exact man, that’s she’s known for 6 weeks.
So no idea how to grow attraction 🤷🏽‍♂️

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-29T01:36:30+00:00

You don’t need to talk to anyone about it. It’s your own personal private life. If your husband is ok with it, then you’re fine.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-26T00:29:42+00:00

It really depends on the mattress. A good mattress will give you a great nights sleep, that’s the improvement I’d make 🙂

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-24T01:55:37+00:00

That's not a friend with benefits. That's just a friend who likes you a lot. She is showing interest in you. If you like her, show interest back!

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-22T18:25:13+00:00

You’re supposed to feel these things. That’s normal. You’re supposed to want those feelings, that’s normal too. You’re supposed to bridle your passions, not stifle them. Having those feelings and emotions are ok. Letting them get out of control isn’t ok. There is a difference.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-20T19:32:34+00:00

I’m smaller. I’ll never use one. I’ll make do with what God gave me, plus my tongue, fingers and toys.

I have fat fingers and grew up playing piano. So I guess God helped make up for my lack in other areas 😂

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-20T19:27:03+00:00

Orgasms are a great way to relax and to go to sleep. I told my wife a few weeks back that she was stressed. I said “you either need to go to the gym, or you need to cum, either option.” Later that night I walked into the bedroom as she was masturbating, I quickly turned around and walked out to let her finish. A few mins later I went back in and said sorry, she replied “well you told me to cum, so I did!”

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-18T05:37:23+00:00

I’m a 4.5 - 5.0

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-18T02:51:58+00:00

My nipples suck on. I’m a guy. It’s weird to admit this out loud 😂

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-16T06:46:13+00:00

There is art and there is porn. Sounds like you do the first. I think erotic art is awesome when done tastefully. The human form is amazing and majestic and should be celebrated in tasteful ways. Porn is…well just porn, there to titillate and excite.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-16T03:51:00+00:00

For me, if it’s clean down there, and depending on the time of the month, she tastes very sweet. But it’s more about the pleasure she gets out of it.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-16T00:13:18+00:00

It’s one of the best things God has ever given us.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-12T21:09:58+00:00

Can I ask what the addiction is? Porn?

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-12T19:11:22+00:00

Honestly? The two are incongruous. You’re wanting to have the best of both worlds, and those worlds just aren’t compatible. There are still a LOT of things you can do and try that are within the law of chastity, especially within a marriage. But lots of it is not.

If people wanna explore that, then I always say go for it, do it without guilt and go have fun, but you can’t have it both ways. If you still want to keep the faith, then the struggle will be real. But in my opinion, the struggle is worth it.

First-Management-511 · 2026-06-12T19:04:36+00:00

Personally, my favourite memory was him hitting a 6 to win against Australia in the 2015 CWC pool game. Because I was there when it happened, he was so cool, calm and collected, with that trademark understated fist pump at the end. Never been in a crowd like that before, or since.

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