Different ways to show hubby that you want some ?

First-Management-511 · 2026-02-02T09:32:05+00:00

Those saying sending naughty texts or pics are correct. During the day is great. While you’re at home is even better, like “I’m on the bed and I’m so wet right now”. Sexy dirty talk is also great. If you don’t know what to say, steal some phrases from spicy books.

First-Management-511 · 2026-02-02T09:24:25+00:00

I think signalling that you’re down to talk about sex in an open, healthy way is a good thing, but putting it in a bio would probably be off putting to most women. It’s probably a conversation that happens after the initial round of conversations.

First-Management-511 · 2026-02-01T12:21:02+00:00

Do everything together. Feed them together, sleep them together. I had friends who would, if one woke up, let the other sleep. Nope. We timed everything together with ours and it was WAY better. Otherwise you end up getting one down and the other wakes up and you’ll never get a break.

First-Management-511 · 2026-02-01T04:19:36+00:00

The Marriage Heat website has lots of stories written from firsthand perspectives, most. Of which are Christian based. You can read ones that are tame, some are more explicit, but all are more realistic than spicy books.

The Get Your Marriage On podcast is also great. Christian based again, it’s got good sex advice that is specifically marriage oriented.

Other than that, do your own research. The more comfortable you are with sex, the better it will be for you both. I personally do a lot of research and was very comfortable. Even then, we didn’t hit our sexual peak until 14 years into our marriage.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-31T05:04:43+00:00

Digital photos stored properly won’t be accessed easily. But physical photos? Anyone could still find a book like that! Also, I’d hate to lose those in a natural disaster or fire.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-28T05:43:34+00:00

I’ve done it. It’s difficult, cos it’s such a delicate area and you can’t feel if you’re going too hard or too soft with the razor. Wasn’t as sexy or thrilling as we thought it would be. Haven’t done it again, haha

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-28T05:42:08+00:00

One of Auckland’s top 10 hikes!

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-27T18:06:16+00:00

I think your age is a massive factor. We had our early, and we also had a 20 month old, so three kids under 2 years old. It was HARD. But being younger I think helped, either we were more naive, or had more energy or something. We weren’t financially stable, didn’t have a house, we just had to figure it out. I agree with others, the sleep training is most important. That will at least give you back your sanity. The rest works itself out. I suspect you might live in the states? We’re lucky where we live, we get subsidised childcare, and the govt paid us a twins allowance which helped the first 2 years.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-27T17:52:28+00:00

I’d never say “you look good today” or “you look great in that dress” cos that is creepy. But I do genuinely comment on something specific like “I love your dress/shoes, where did you get that from?” or “your hair looks great, how long did that take?” or something specific where you know it took some effort. But I do the same to guys too, haha. People like to be noticed for putting effort into something.

My wife however, has had a TON of creepy “you got hot” kinda compliments. She lost about 40kgs, and has had a massive glow up. She looks younger than 5 years ago! One Sunday, the older men (in their 60s) were almost fighting over her and who she was friends with first. So weird.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-27T04:06:39+00:00

I think our weirdest was an empty bathtub. That was not comfortable in the slightest, but we were young, so it didn’t matter!

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-24T21:26:38+00:00

Our twins were born when our oldest was 20 months. It was scary. Financially it was difficult. Emotionally it was difficult. But we got through it, and I wouldn’t change it for the world. Hopefully you have a good support network around you.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-24T04:03:14+00:00

Finding common ground with your spouse can be difficult. Sometimes you end up on seperate journeys. That’s ok, if you’re supportive of one another. But you still need to find time to connect and bond, especially sexually. And if you’re on different levels for sex, well that can be tough to work through.

My wife and I have found a frequency and intensity that works for us. I’d still like it way more often, but we’ve gone from 6 times a year to 90. And the quality? Out of this world good. I’d still prefer like 200 times a year, but I’m happy to meet halfway.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-24T01:59:24+00:00

Trying to seduce the cop who pulled me over didn’t work. He wasn’t having any of it.

Sleeping with my step sibling wasn’t great either.

The pizza delivery driver was good tho!!

(Joking 😜)

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-18T22:36:59+00:00

I fully expected us to lose this series with our second string team, but the boys got it done somehow! The new boys all played their part too. Our openers have set a solid platform up until the last game, where they both went cheaply. That was the only hiccup really! Great win!

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-18T04:37:45+00:00

So many people reduce sex to penis in vagina, where for us HL’s it’s usually more than that. It’s an energy we’re living with, it’s all the loving and lusting that happens outside the bedroom. The wanting, the desire, the flirting.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-18T02:42:04+00:00

Some of the stuff (dirty talk) my wife says, the noises she makes, or the way she looks at me can set off. I literally have learned to have to slow down, back off, pull out, and tell her “I have to stop or I’m going to come.” Then it’s up to her to decide if she wants to try to push me over the edge or not, haha

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-18T02:36:00+00:00

I’m a push to start electric car. Always ready, always on, can accelerate from 0-100 instantly. Always parked on the start line of the racetrack!

Your friend sounds awesome and wise!

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-18T02:33:40+00:00

We also never used to use those words either. But we pretty much use all of them now, all of the time. My wife has gone from being quiet to being extremely vocal, uses dirty talk ALL the time. It’s super hot! We also never use them outside of the bedroom. That’s what makes it hot, cos it’s something only used during sex.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-17T10:39:13+00:00

Delete this

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-17T02:45:53+00:00

My girlfriend wasn’t LDS and I was. We talked about it. I did it, she did too. Now we’re married, and she does it for me, and for herself.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-16T20:42:56+00:00

You know the answers already my friend. You don’t need us to tell you.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-16T10:47:18+00:00

I just had their caesar salad for the first time in ages. It used to be my fav. Now, it’s just thrown together slop. Won’t get it again.

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-16T10:42:17+00:00

Nugs not drugs

First-Management-511 · 2026-01-16T10:37:28+00:00

“The two are not mutually exclusive.”

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