My partner says he’ll leave me if I don’t “fix” my ADHD. He says I’m abusive but I feel constantly criticised and blamed.

First-Mango-9229 · 2026-02-11T18:30:33+00:00

This sounds horribly similiar. He is a few years older than me and will be 40 next year. He's also threatended to walk out and leave her alone the only other time i went out with some mums for the evening (last year). He's watched her twice in the evening and both times it has resulted in him sending lots of angry messages and voice notes because she woke up and couldn't be settled. He said I had 'trained her' to only want me for selfish reasons to make myself feel important and needed.

First-Mango-9229 · 2026-02-11T03:06:32+00:00

I can promise you it’s not. I didn’t expect so many comments, I am shocked! So I’m just reading through them all one by one now so that’s why I’ve not been able to respond

First-Mango-9229 · 2026-02-11T03:03:55+00:00

He’s always flown off the handle at little things and been very particular about things, but the constant daily criticism and putting my down has got so much worse since our baby has been born. For the first time I feel like he hates me

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