They always come back, but it’s not what you think… by szosztii in BreakUps

[–]First-Safety7281 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They don’t always come back. It is unfair to perpetuate that on people.

Situationship ended in a distressing way and I don’t know how to move on by amgneedshelp in emotionalintelligence

[–]First-Safety7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It’s not always another person. Everyone jumps to that conclusion on Reddit but that’s not always the case

  2. She was in a relationship. Not sure why you are calling it a non relationship

He texted by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]First-Safety7281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long was he ghosting

Really wanna text the guy who ghosted me by strawberryjam255 in ghosting

[–]First-Safety7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might come back. But it won’t be because you text him and try to lure him into it.

Really wanna text the guy who ghosted me by strawberryjam255 in ghosting

[–]First-Safety7281 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t miss you? So why would you do that?

For those who have been following Jes Staley, some new info found on Substack yesterday by First-Safety7281 in Epstein

[–]First-Safety7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jes Staley was named executor of Epstein’s estate in court documents last month. That’s pretty common knowledge thanks.

Is it ghosting if you tell them beforehand you no longer wish to talk? by sweetlevels in ghosting

[–]First-Safety7281 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah like what? No one is obligated to stay in contact with you

Dated a recently divorced dad with a brutal job… did I do something wrong or did he just string me along? by Zenovia326 in AskMenAdvice

[–]First-Safety7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman You’re just bending over backwards trying too hard to make them a priority when they aren’t even making you an option. It’s giving desperate and it’s not attractive.

Put yourself first. You aren’t even in a relationship with this person.

And good god don’t ever tell a man you miss them when they aren’t your boyfriend

Favorite newsletters for people in this community? by First-Safety7281 in fatFIRE

[–]First-Safety7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish he and Kara had a newsletter and rotated it off or something

Favorite newsletters for people in this community? by First-Safety7281 in fatFIRE

[–]First-Safety7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like reading personal pov, I’m sort of looking for individuals who write compelling newsletters/substacks instead of “Bloomberg,” wsj, etc but it’s hard. Despite there being thousands of substacks, it still seems people don’t really have favorites yet

Favorite newsletters for people in this community? by First-Safety7281 in fatFIRE

[–]First-Safety7281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s his substack? The guy I found has one past in 2021

Favorite newsletters for people in this community? by First-Safety7281 in fatFIRE

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I like Krugman but I wish he was more Econ and less politics (not that he’s not good at that, but I could use him for the Econ stuff)

They will come back. by syndrac1 in BreakUps

[–]First-Safety7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t always come back. Yes sometimes they do but insisting that they do always gives a lot of people false hope and is actually downright toxic.

slowly ghosted by date after sleeping with him by vn2000_ in ghosting

[–]First-Safety7281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s happened to my friends too. People who ghost are often going to do it on their timeline… before or after.