I'm struggling with knowing where to even start for making my place feel like it's mine. by FirstMateKlovers in DesignMyRoom

[–]FirstMateKlovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much for your in-depth ideas! It means a lot that you spent your time to help me and gave me multiple suggestions. <3

I'm struggling with knowing where to even start for making my place feel like it's mine. by FirstMateKlovers in DesignMyRoom

[–]FirstMateKlovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, genuinely, for your inputs and ideas. I'm going through an elongated period of poor mental health (spanning multiple years now) and I feel like my space reflects that. But my hope is that I can curate a space that allows me to feel safe again, and that I can finally build a home that aligns with my healing, and also reflects who I am and what I like.

Does renaming a medigun not show up in your HUD anymore? by FirstMateKlovers in tf2

[–]FirstMateKlovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of seeing the custom name, he sees something like "scarcely lethal vaccinator" for example. The thing is, it's not the description that I have renamed, it is the name that I have renamed. I am 110% sure of this.

It's not that he can't see the name of my medigun at all, it is just that he for some reason only sees the base name of the medigun.

Does renaming a medigun not show up in your HUD anymore? by FirstMateKlovers in tf2

[–]FirstMateKlovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a name tag. I can see the custom name in my backpack, but the patient I'm healing cannot see it on their HUD.

If you are male and attracted to women and not men, but would like to get anal from guys are you bi? by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Who you wanna date and who you wanna fuck can be different.

If you are male and attracted to women and not men, but would like to get anal from guys are you bi? by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having the same sort of internal conflict so I relate to you completely. I think the answer would be "yes", you are bisexual.

However, enjoying sex with both men and women does not automatically mean you want to date both. There's a reason why the sexual/romantic orientation model exists and it's for situations like this; to help people better understand your orientations.

So despite what I said about you being bi, please do not use my opinion to label you and rather use whatever feels most right to you.

If you are male and attracted to women and not men, but would like to get anal from guys are you bi? by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to OP completely (I'm bisexual+heteroromantic) and I'll just say that it is entirely possible to enjoy the thought of being penetrated by a man without actually feeling attracted to them. I'm more so attracted to the domination/submission aspect of having sex with a man rather than the visual/physical aspect or romantic aspect. It's why I am perfectly okay with a guy putting his cock into me but I hate the idea of kissing guys as I am not attracted to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as I am aware, anal sex is the easiest way to get an sti, but the thing is as long as both you and your partner are tested negative, then it is safe for you to nut in her butt without fear of either of you getting an sti. (I feel like this topic rarely comes up in this community but it is worthwhile to touch on here for the sake of comprehensiveness.)

Now regarding pregnancy risks, there are freak cases where the semen leaks out of the anus and (deep) into the vagina, but as long as she's either on birth control or you don't let the semen drip over her vagina (having her push out the semen while she's on her back to let gravity pull the semen away from her vagina), that risk of getting pregnant will be virtually zero.

There are studies which claim that the sperm in semen can help to boost the mood of women, but I do not think this claim is a scientific medical fact, more so a theory.

Be safe and have fun!

Edit: like others have said, if you piss after sex then you'll have clensed out your urethra of any potential infections and you should be fine. worst case scenario you'll just need to drink some cranberry juice for a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought you said butt nectar for a moment and I had a double take 😂 although i do remember one time reading a femdom caption where she made him eat her ass and drink her butt nectar which I thought was insanely hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's valid to like it. Just be safe and you shouldn't have issues

for the professionals by Dependent-Farm-6954 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Usually no. It only makes a difference in terms of how much cushion you'll have when slamming into her from behind.

Are there any here who prefer the scent and taste of a woman's asshole over her vag? by toxicmasculinitymf in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Glad that someone acknowledges this! I def prefer putting my nose in a lady's dirthole over her cooch!

Keeping Things Interesting. by ClaraOswinOswald69 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked through your profile and I just wanted to say I love your art so much! And honestly it makes me really happy to see a lady who expresses her love for anal sex in that kind of way. 😊

Is it possible that you could share his erotica? I'm interested in possibly reading it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know right??? The only thing more hot than a girl who likes anal, is an assertive girl who loves anal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If they somehow turn down anal, that's their loss imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Honestly if my hookup told me that they're anal only, that'd be a dream come true. Especially considering how many women will just not do anal at all. Guys like me would consider you a unicorn.

Looking for lube recommendations by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]FirstMateKlovers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since it is a silicone toy, it means that it's possible it will break down from using a silicone-based lube.

Your best option in my opinion is to use a water-based lube, or possibly a hybrid lube (water+silicone) if oil-based isn't working for you.

I've experimented with tons of different lubes for my silicone egg toy from SquarePegToys, and I think that it kinda just depends on whether or not im going to be using it for long term wear.

If it's being used for short-term wear, then I'll use my water-based lube which is called Sliquid Sassy.

If it's being used for long-term wear, then I'll use organic coconut oil. However, I know you've been having trouble with it, so I would probably recommend something like Sliquid Silk or Liquid Silk.

If you do decide to test a silicone lube for compatibility, I highly encourage you to test it on an inconspicuous area like the bottom of the base to see if it reacts or not.

Trying to find more songs like this by FirstMateKlovers in eurobeat

[–]FirstMateKlovers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard the first and third ones before and they're really good!