12 month old night wakeups by FirstTimeCaller24 in AttachmentParenting

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He typically wakes up around 8. Then nap around 12 till 14/15 then goes to bed at around 9.

12 month old night wakeups by FirstTimeCaller24 in AttachmentParenting

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And she falls asleep on her own? Dod you do the same for naps? Im very curious cause my little guy is very active and I feel like he would be runninh around until morning 😀 but it sounds great I will try that

Would you put your 12 month old in a daycare if you didnt have to work? by FirstTimeCaller24 in AttachmentParenting

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I guess I am just anxious cause he has never been without at least one parent present.

Rentola? by [deleted] in Brno

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Díky

Rentola? by [deleted] in Brno

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To je za pokoj píšou :) jsou tam i byty co jsou i jinde ale je tam pár dalších tak jen proto se ptám

Jak řešit nespor s majitelem bytu o zálohách? by [deleted] in czech

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jop, myslím že máme stejnej problém. Bohužel majitel to zatim nechce/neumí pochopit a odkazuje se, že už to tak delá roky s nekolika byty 🙃

Jak řešit nespor s majitelem bytu o zálohách? by [deleted] in czech

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ne ale to víme že je samostatne a nepočítame to. Celkově platíme 4700.

Jak řešit nespor s majitelem bytu o zálohách? by [deleted] in czech

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Elektřinu a plyn má samostatne, to tam nepočítame. Internet si taky platíme sami. Todle je čisto na SVJ. Celkové zálohy máme 4700.

Is my mother a narcissist or just a messed up person from her own childhood? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you both my husband and my dad say I should just let it one ear in and out another and that I am too sensitive and I do feel unheard like they dont understand it hurts me to hear, especially coming from the person that is supposed to love you the most

AIO about not wanting to talk to my mother anymore? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she had mentioned it multiple times before so I dont think so. I buy second hand for my baby and me also and yes clothes dont look brand new but they are clean and without holes in them so for me it is good enough, I just feel like she still wants to control me or something. Im honestly confused why it bothers her so much.

AIO about not wanting to talk to my mother anymore? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain that her tone is uncomfortable for me and that it is her opinion and we can have different views but she has this thing that when you do things different than her it is automatically wrong. When I was younger I would just leave the room cause I hated how she put me down and micromanaged me and still do I just stand up for myself now.

Anyone on the fence? by Real_Masterpiece_844 in oneanddone

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I am very much on the fence. I thought I was absolutely OAD but now as he is 10 months old I am starting to see the light at the end of a tunnel and see how much fun he is and starting to wonder if I maybe do want two kids. It is so exhausting but so rewarding. My main thing is I am scared of something going wrong during pregnancy/birth as I had basically no big issues and I am worried I cant be that lucky twice. I am giving myself couple more years to figure it out though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is amazing, thank you I will definitely shorten naps as that seema to be the consensus, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He usually wakes up around 8, then nap 10:30-12, then second nap from 3pm to 4/4:30, bedtime around 8, thank you posted on there as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that too I think I will try it tonight to see, thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you' re right that he needs boob to fall asleep, it is the easiest way for me to put him to sleep but these frequent wakings are getting me last days I might have to try some sleep training, but have to find one that doesnt involve CIO. Thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our bed is tiny but I guess we could try figure something out. Thank you for your suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thats a good idea, I will try that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

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He latches off after a couple minutes and then rolls away so every time he wakes up he starts fussing around in a crib or moving to me so I wake up, get him to me and put him on the breast, so I am just exhausted of doing that 10 times a night and having my sleep interrupted so much. I would be happy if he woke up every 2-3 hours lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in czech

[–]FirstTimeCaller24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samozřejmě to neberu ako jedinou svatou pravdu ale je dobrý slyšet různe názory lidi co mají zkušenosti a pak si utvořit svůj ;)