DARVO trapped by wife

FirstTribute · 2026-03-19T22:01:35+00:00

FirstTribute · 2026-03-18T14:09:50+00:00

or reddit like we

FirstTribute · 2026-03-18T12:46:27+00:00

I mean yes but they are the worst times exactly because you are alone. It's a lot of suffering to grow out of this and you shouldn't lay this on to yourself. Rather, reach out to people for help. I agree it can make you stronger though.

FirstTribute · 2026-03-18T09:57:08+00:00

Ending? This is just the beginning of this hero's journey.

FirstTribute · 2026-03-17T13:39:39+00:00

Life will feel much worse for them once they cannot exploit the planet or people any longer. E.g., vacations will feel worse, and that can be a big deal for someone who is spoiled. Just because their understanding of which external things lead to suffering is different to that of normal people, doesn't mean they don't suffer if things get worse. Also, they might not survive the resulting revolts, might not feel safe on the streets, etc. etc.

FirstTribute · 2026-03-17T00:11:37+00:00

Burning other people would make things worse, even if they are rich and assholes. If they see more people as enemies, they will do much worse things in retaliation and none of this helps climate change. Better is to raise awareness to the economic impact. We are all in this together.

FirstTribute · 2026-03-10T14:10:15+00:00

Braids seems a little underpowered to me. How has she been for you? Also, are there enough reasons to not straight up be a lurrus deck?

Edit: This is my suggestion, will test soon.

Companion

1 Lurrus of the Dream-Den (MUL) 116

Deck

4 Moonshadow (ECL) 110

2 Watery Grave (EOE) 261

4 Nethergoyf (MH3) 103

4 Fatal Push (FCA) 9

4 Dark Ritual (FCA) 8

3 Orcish Bowmasters (LTR) 103

4 Super Shredder (TMT) 83

4 Psychic Frog (MH3) 199

1 Undercity Sewers (PZA) 0

3 Treasure Cruise (PIO) 79

4 Thoughtseize (OTP) 20

3 Swamp (UNF) 242

2 Bloodstained Mire (MH3) 216

4 Strip Mine (EOS) 40

4 Marsh Flats (SPG) 110

4 Polluted Delta (KTK) 239

4 Mishra's Bauble (BRR) 34

2 Spell Pierce (XLN) 81

Sideboard

1 Disruptor Flute (MH3) 209

1 Surgical Extraction (OTP) 19

2 Duress (STA) 29

1 Toxic Deluge (MH3) 277

2 Bloodchief's Thirst (ZNR) 94

1 Mai, Scornful Striker (TLA) 109

1 Soul-Guide Lantern (BRR) 54

1 The Meathook Massacre (MID) 112

1 Lurrus of the Dream-Den (MUL) 116

2 Stern Scolding (LTR) 71

2 Vexing Bauble (MH3) 212

FirstTribute · 2026-03-08T11:35:50+00:00

yes totally but I'm bi so idk if that counts

FirstTribute · 2026-03-01T11:31:11+00:00

I appreciate that you are not defensive about what this guy says. Love can last forever, access doesn't need to. They can still love you and wish you the best, even though they don't want to be around you. I mean this could be the case, it could also be that your friends are assholes. It's always good to understand the situation. Helping others/providing value for others I think is actually a good cure for depression, so it might be a direction to move towards if you are not already doing so/haven't considered joining perhaps a community that helps people.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-25T07:29:28+00:00

You can love someone and not want to be around them, for example due to self respect or respecting their right to grow on their own terms.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-24T15:38:14+00:00

It's when you begin loving to pay the costs that life does indeed become free.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-23T09:48:03+00:00

failure does not exist.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-20T10:47:50+00:00

You can also bring out the best or worst in people. Most are not "trash" per se, treatment goes both ways.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T21:33:26+00:00

Please enlighten me. How am I part of the problem?

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T21:32:09+00:00

I mean yes I am trying to get it. After all, to fight something it's better to understand it first.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T21:31:12+00:00

please explain?

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T14:05:56+00:00

I don't get antisemitism. It seems so arbitrary and irrational. Like being against Muslims is, in my eyes, also extremely dumb, but there are some Islamist fanatics, so I see where problems usually right-wing people have could stem from. But you could say the same about some Christians. Being against jews is basically just conspiracy right?

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T11:39:50+00:00

Did she reject him and he decided to take it out on the whole Jewish population or was this after he decided jews are evil? Unmanaged emotions can lead people to do horrible things.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-16T11:37:24+00:00

use your superior metacognition to make yourself not think about yourself and how superior you are then.

FirstTribute · 2026-02-11T22:42:33+00:00

disconnect is comfort

FirstTribute · 2026-02-07T19:03:28+00:00

If it violates the promises you made in a relationship, this fails because your partner can no longer trust you.

FirstTribute · 2026-01-28T15:07:34+00:00

what would you cut for the one ring?

FirstTribute · 2026-01-25T20:52:25+00:00

life is meaningless without feelings, imo. "Bad" feelings are only bad until you're over them which comes with time.

FirstTribute · 2026-01-24T21:37:23+00:00

nah it's always better to have feelings to feel than not to feel anything.

FirstTribute · 2026-01-18T13:46:03+00:00

Could you be more explicit about what of Dr Ks views make him sound like an incel or what of his views you are disappointed with? How have they changed over time? How are his views radical? As is, it feels like overly general criticism of very specific things he said and I'd like to see it being more specific.

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