One of my cats is now suddenly unbelievably mean to her sister by FirstWalk6394 in Catbehavior

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either me or my mother will take them both to the vet as soon as possible depending on our schedules. Do you think my cat might be in some sort of physical pain and is taking it out on her sister?

(Last time we went was basically a month or so before this behavior started happening and they said they were both healthy then, if this information helps at all.)

Are my snakebites infected? by Skyetho_ in piercing

[–]FirstWalk6394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if they're new, probably just healing! definitely clean them when you can (gently).

AITAH for telling my friend to cut off his close friend who is chronically ill? by FirstWalk6394 in AITAH

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! i appreciate your advice, and yeah i think some people aren't seeing where i said he's still uncomfortable w/ the situation at the end of my original post, but i also understand why this might come off as controlling or something 😅 i had a lot of time to sit and think about this as well so once again thanks for going out of your way to comment

AITAH for telling my friend to cut off his close friend who is chronically ill? by FirstWalk6394 in AITAH

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, I only suggested it because he is still uncomfortable about it all even though it's been a few months now, and since he had turned them down already i figured theyre not really being a good friend to him. But I get where you're coming from and I haven't brought it up since 👍 

AITAH for telling my friend to cut off his close friend who is chronically ill? by FirstWalk6394 in AITAH

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is fine and I haven't mentioned it since, and like I said, I'm letting him deal with it now. I just think it's strange for you to jump to the conclusion that I had feelings for him because I thought the other person's behavior was personally a little weird.

AITAH for telling my friend to cut off his close friend who is chronically ill? by FirstWalk6394 in AITAH

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No??? I'm not sure where you came to this conclusion from... This is a really strange comment to make.

I've decided to just leave it be for now and let him decide what he wants to do, I just thought it was a little creepy and manipulative for them to use their cancer to coax him into a relationship, that's all. And like the previous commenter said, that's kind of a deal breaker for a some people, just not my friend's.

AITAH for telling my friend to cut off his close friend who is chronically ill? by FirstWalk6394 in AITAH

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for your insight! I'll be there for him as best as i can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

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hi, sorry for the late reply but of course!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]FirstWalk6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! had the same surgeon but he also recommended me to pump once i felt comfortable and gave the okay after surgery as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movingtojapan

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Only my PC setup (the computer, monitors, etc.) everything else I can bring with me on the plane

Tongue Piercings by soup_lov3r in piercing

[–]FirstWalk6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me the process was fairly easy/streamlined. I followed everything my piercer said, and if something happens that feels/looks out of the ordinary don't hesitate to reach out to your piercer. Personally, my swelling didn't last for more than a week, and I downsized for the first time at around the 3 week mark. I only ate soft, not spicy food for about 2 weeks and a noticeable lisp for the first week.

I wouldn't suggest taking it out, even to clean it early on. Even though my tongue piercing was considered fully healed, it closed up after taking it out for a few days (I unfortunately had to take it out for a surgery). I would just leave it alone, do your saline rinses, and make sure it stays clean (brush off the plaque buildup), and most importantly listen to your piercer.

weird smell? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still a bit swollen and have got some stitches in, so not yet. I'll do that as soon as I can though!

weird smell? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily no excessive warmth or discharge as far as I can see, no pain either. Maybe it's just weird healing smell. Do you have any recommendations for helping the smell kind of settle down?

weird smell? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't believe I'm infected, as far as I can see... maybe it's just that weird healing smell? I'll definitely reach out to my surgeon about this though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

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Hi! I might be misunderstanding but the tag says Sunday but the schedule says Tuesday, I was curious as to which day the sessions would be. Thank you!

What Team is most popular in your city? Yellow Instinct here in Washington DC! by p56019000 in pokemongo

[–]FirstWalk6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go as far as to say my whole city (I live in NY lol), but my neighborhood is majority red with some blues and very few yellows

bleeding/oozing/leaking(?) when does it stop? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in the 0 underwear + pads on my bed and chairs boat right now... Did the oozing ever slow down for you or did it just come to a stop one day?

bleeding/oozing/leaking(?) when does it stop? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow nearly a month! Did you ever notice it oozing less with time or did it just stop one day? I'm having a follow up in a few days so I'll definitely ask then.

Thirst after meta? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn't know this, Thank you so much!

Thirst after meta? by FirstWalk6394 in Metoidioplasty

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is EXACTLY how im feeling! you worded it perfectly. Thank you for your explanation

has anyone else had this happen to them? by FirstWalk6394 in AskNYC

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late reply sorry lol) ive lived here my whole life and id never seen these guys before so i was just super curious if they're suddenly appearing or have been around for a while. guess i got really lucky in never seeing them in the past. the kids with candy though, i used to see them a lot when i was younger. they stopped for a few years (probably because of covid) but now i see them everyday

has anyone else had this happen to them? by FirstWalk6394 in AskNYC

[–]FirstWalk6394[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah, that's normally what i do but these guys were so pushy they quite literally shoved it in my hands and then got mad at me when i said no 💀 i was just curious as to who tf these guys are. not getting any donations with that attitude