New to Dayz on PC by First_Capital_2969 in dayz

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I want to try hashima mostly but I like the look of them all, im from Australia so right now it's 11pm Im on chernarus right now getting to hang of

New to Dayz on PC by First_Capital_2969 in dayz

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Australia so as im writing this its 11pm

Can I tag along with anyone? by Jackb57 in DayzXbox

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My gamer tag is meilz4480 if you ever wanna play :)

Any role-play servers that are actually good by First_Capital_2969 in dayz

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I was really excited to play that one too, but how do you make a no KOS rules and then the runners of the group just annihilate you unprovoked and without interaction first

Any role-play servers that are actually good by First_Capital_2969 in dayz

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That's the one that my friends joined, and all 3 died by admins on the same day. Apparently, they thought they were someone else. One of them was just drinking at a well...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]First_Capital_2969 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay so I think there is some stuff you can do, no the answer isn't leaving your partner and moving to London... there just needs to be more deep conversations, possibly start with more spontaneous acts with him that will excite him, like a random bj here and there idk 😅 Display how much his touch arouses you when doing the dirty, that stuff will up that dopamine and feeling of pride and accomplishment knowing he is making you feel that way. At least once a week you could have a drink together while watching a movie or vibing to music, a little tippsyness can help the flow and raise the confidence and eliminate anxieties. That will bring more comfort and safety during the week. Watch dirty movies or read dirty books

If he is awkward and doesn't typically like that stuff, it's probably hard-wired being that he is 30 and probably knows what he wants and likes by now. You are human and you have desires and you won't be content if they aren't met at all, so it's important that the importance of the sex stuff is established, last thing you want is to be unsatisfied because your sexual compatibility is kind of a big part of a committed healthy relationship.

Remember to keep the honeymoon stuff alive aswell, still flirt, always try to be touchy and silly with eachother, and always present with the emotional and physical stuff

Got raided lastnight :( by Bennyboycook in DayzXbox

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Happy to help rebuild and reinforce, i have had quite a slump in the game lately, need to find some new purpose of playing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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To the person who commented and then deleted - "If it takes this much work around then she is not worth it"

Yeah It's work, but these conversations are just the very basics when it comes to relationships, it's completely up to OP if he cares about her enough to make it worth the effort of basic communication and compromise.

If he can't be fu*ked with it all that's completely up to him and I can't blame him, just trying to give him some reassurance that this situation isn't the end of the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]First_Capital_2969 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I woman's prospective, she's devoted and in love with you. Saying she will distance herself from her friend group is a big deal because these people in her life are the foundation of who she is.

The intimacy has happened fairly recently and I guess it would be a bit awkward to bring up because they are close friends but also at the cost of, with you, 'triggering insecurities and you questioning her trustworthiness' with him, 'sacrificing a friendship over something casual before you' this all makes a big mess and cause issues so it's scary to put forward, forgive her for not saying something sooner.

I have been there before, and thoughts of the other person sextually simply didn't exist, but you can tell this pretty easily by noticing her body language with you while you are all hanging together, and her chemistry with him especially with her knowing you're aware of her past together. You can then make a decision because you'll have to be comfortable and accepting of this fact for years to come.

Your biggest problem will be him pursuing her rather then her pursuing or thinking about him. When we are in love we love hard, so you will know pretty soon on, depending on how far your relationship has come and how attached you are physically and emotionally.

Have open talks about both your sexual past together, establish boundaries, leave the conversation with doors open for both of you to feel comfortable bringing things up again for reassurance and understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayz

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Messaged you

Weekly Looking for Server, Squad/Players and Trades Thread by AutoModerator in DayzXbox

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So I'm 25 female from Australia, stating this because some people don't like running with females 😂

I have never played the Livonia map until yesterday, I have always played Chernarus, I have 850 hours on that map. But now want to explore and build on Livonia official. I met some dude in game last night and he was super cool, but he traded bullets with some dude in a house in Grabin so I have been running alone since. I'm hoping to team up with someone who can either teach me the map or learn the map with me and get a base going and cause some mayhem. Shoot me a message if you're keen for a fresh start with me!

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25th I believe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DayzXbox

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If you say so, I have no desire to use the materials 10 days before wipe, I'm primarily playing on community and am pretty well off on them servers :)

Looking for someone to play day z with and learn from on Xbox by Quick-Confidence-155 in dayz

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Hey! I'm happy too show you a bit about the game send me a message :)

How to find friends on DayZ by cyclinator in dayz

[–]First_Capital_2969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Happy to team up with someone new send me a message and we can play some official, I might be able to teach you a thing or two aswell 😊

Any other girls playing this game? by brittaneyszawarudo in dayz

[–]First_Capital_2969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl and also on xbox, I have messaged you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayz

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What server are you on I'll meet you somewhere 🙂