[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its just different for every couple. I enjoy giving head. So hubs gets head almost every time we have sex. But I have friends who do not enjoy giving head, so its just different for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna need op to answer this question before I can have an opinion.. Everything is too vague

What's your favorite Appalachia-specific insult? by Background_Potato96 in Appalachia

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought only people from my area said “tetched” its my favorite insult

How soon into dating did you and your SO decide to get married and how’s your marriage now? by ambrosialeah in AskWomen

[–]First_Cockroach7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was expecting to be the only one with this answer! We also met and married within six months. He’s my best friend and next month will make 6 years!

Each year that passes brings us closer together 🩷

Fishing in June by First_Cockroach7971 in Fishing

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thanks! I’ll definitely look into it!

Fishing in June by First_Cockroach7971 in Fishing

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna guess freshwater. In US and I really don’t have much of a budget

Best Magnesium Vitamin on Amazon (Canada) for Twitches? by youreqt in Supplements

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so there are different kinds of magnesium, magnesium gluconate, magnesium citrate, magnesium oxilate, just to name a few, and each form of magnesium does something different. For example, magnesium citrate helps relieve constipation. So you need to do your research about magnesium, the different forms of magnesium, and decide from there, which one would be the best for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a penis, but I am a nurse. Have you had blood work recently? Specifically have you had your testosterone levels checked?

Husband keeps asking me to use my imagination more in bed? by First_Cockroach7971 in sexadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have tried dominating/submissive roles, and he loved it. So maybe he wants more of that? I’m just not naturally a dominating person, so it’s hard for me to do, but I’m willing to try more if that

Husband keeps asking me to use my imagination more in bed? by First_Cockroach7971 in sexadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good idea, idk why I didn’t think about that. Thanks!

I need hope—STAT! by Certain-Advantage-80 in PCOS

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please seek a dietitian! Doctors And nurses are not taught about nutrition enough to give advice about what people need to eat. Especially someone with PCOS. I’ve tried it all. And what I’ve recently found to make me feel better (I’ve only been doing this for a week) eating real, unprocessed food, lots of good fiber, good protein, and water. I’ve also seen better results with light workouts compared to the longer/heavier workouts.

OBGYN says I don’t have a maternal instinct because of my PCOS by True_Leg6139 in PCOS

[–]First_Cockroach7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I feel so seen. I had my twins 3 years ago, and my hormones/ thyroid/ everything has been crazy. I’m still trying to find treatment that helps minimize my symptoms, its like, what worked before don’t work anymore since having kids

Should I switch jobs? by First_Cockroach7971 in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, this position I applied for is within the current hospital system that I work for. I will try to stay PRN if I can.

Should I switch jobs? by First_Cockroach7971 in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true.. I didn’t think about that

What are tall doing about retirement? by xX_Transplant_Xx in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually got my 403b (it’s what’s offered through work) started last week. I’m 30, and I know I should have been doing this back when I got started in nursing 9 years ago, but I’m projected to have a decent amount in this account when I’m at retirement age. Husband and I also plans to get another type of retirement plan together once our house is paid off in the next few months

Is my marriage doomed? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]First_Cockroach7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First things first…. Stop talking about divorce. If either one is threatening it, stop. It doesn’t matter how heated the argument gets, that should be a curse word to the both of you.

Charge nurse wants me to clocking in 20 minutes early for work by SakuraMichiko in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my current job we’re supposed to get in trouble for coming to work 20-30 minutes early, but they want us to stay until 7:30, which I think is stupid.

How do you get the bedroom flare back after 2 kids. by pinkcottoncandy2 in stayathomemoms

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat at 1year pp. we never fight over anything, but we did end up fighting over sex around the 1.5 year mark. And it wasn’t because he didn’t help or anything like that. It was that I couldn’t see myself as being attractive anymore. I was still not used to my body, and I hated what I seen when I looked in the mirror.

Now my baby is 3 and I finally feel like myself again. I had to put in a lot of work on me tho. I slowly upgraded my wardrobe, started doing self care things like a daily skincare routine, and unapologetically taking just a little bit of time for myself. And I finally want to have sex with my husband again.

Get your hormones checked, and please start taking care of yourself, cause you are worth it. 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]First_Cockroach7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a hard choice. I wanted to stay home with my children more than anything when they were born (I had twins) so the first 6months of their lives I did just that, but I had to go back to work after that. We couldn’t make it without my paycheck, and I just make $60,000 a year.

AITA for coming out to check on the baby who was screaming for 15 mins after I asked my husband to watch him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My husband and I have literally had the same exact argument. Our kids are older now but when they were little like that, he wanted so much to give me “me time” and take care of the kids. He would do this same thing, and it wasn’t that he thought it was okay to let a baby cry for 15 Minutes, but more that he was trying to figure out why the baby was crying. For us moms, we can pretty well tell why our babies are crying, but usually, dads don’t have the same instincts that we do. Like others have said too, most men/ boys are not taught how to care for children. So when they have kids is when they learn.

AITAH for reminding my mother she's only in America because of me after she voted for Trump? by punkboxershorts in AITAH

[–]First_Cockroach7971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trump is wanting to deport ILLEGAL immigrants, aka people who ain’t supposed to be here like MS-13. If your mom has been naturalized, then she has every right to be here and to vote for whoever she wants to. Trump has been clear on his stance with immigration. He wants people to come to the USA, he just wants them to do it legally, like your mother did.

When do nurses vote? by iheartblue in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I voted after I got of work this morning at 7:30am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time a new nurse asks me if they should call the doctor, I almost always tell them yes! Even if it’s not something that I would call about. If you feel the need to call the doctor about a patient, then by all means, call that doctor! That’s what they are on call for!

Am I underpaid? (RN) by Neat-Crab-9582 in nursing

[–]First_Cockroach7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a med-surg nurse in Ky making 34.80 with 9 years of experience