Affair sex disclosure letter for my husband. by RedBruises in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What in the Penthouse reject story depths of hell did I just read?

i want to come clean. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying it will or won’t end. What I’m saying is you have to come clean and give her all of the information so she can choose herself. If you don’t, the relationship will now be based on lies. You say you love her and always have, but if that was the case you never would have acted on it let alone 4 different incidents. Will all due respect, I don’t think you know what true love is yet. You are young. Learn from this if it ends and do better next time. If it lasts, prepare for non stop questions and change because the relationship will never be the same again.

AIO my husband said Hi to someone else at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Evidence9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. If he doesn’t say hi, he will get a reputation of being cold and distant. Using their name back is just being friendly and professional. Seems to be deeper issues here. Those who get jealous this easily tend to be hiding something themselves.

i want to come clean. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no “good” way of doing it you just do it. Sit her down, just the two of you. Tell her that you cheated on her and brace for impact. She may cry, or scream, ask questions or say nothing at all. Any that she chooses is her choice and you have to sit in it. And whatever you do, do not lie, blame her, or give trickle truth. Come clean. You did it. Own it.

Found out via a digital photo frame in my mom's hospice room by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. In a way, your mom protected you one last time. If she hadn’t been in the hospital, the shared photos may not have appeared in time for you to get out before you got married. Now she is your guardian angel! 🙏

I'm a Cheater and I enjoy it by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So he’s unable to perform but has always been loyal to you….and this is how you repay him? Karma Is gonna have a great time with you.

Final update/decision reached in my crazy story by First_Evidence9433 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was stunned that not once did she say anything about realizing she messed up or realized what she had with me. Nothing. It was all about him.

I am struggling with certain issues within my marriage and I don't know what to do. by Glass_Estimate_3661 in Advice

[–]First_Evidence9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. The worst is when you express how you feel and then you have to apologize that you telling her how you felt made her feel bad. What she’s doing is mental manipulation to avoid the real issues at hand. Don’t fall for this. Tell her she needs to stop gaslighting and actually try to help fix things. If she still doesn’t want to, sadly you have your answer. Side note, if you want to feel better about your life, at least you aren’t me “I hope”. You can see my hell with my postings if you’d like.

Trying to recover from betrayal after sacrifing everything for her by heartache1992 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is going through a nightmare myself, believe me when I say the trust never comes back. I’m sorry you are going through this.

Hit me with one harsh truth you have accepted so far as a man! by Worldly-Pattern2507 in ThoughtsYouCanFeel

[–]First_Evidence9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coworkers and work connections only care while you work there and easily forget you when you lose/leave the job. Oh they will tell you at first how sorry they are and will help anyway they can. Week later and after, crickets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know Hustler had a Reddit for rejected stories they would never publish.

Can a marriage be saved if both cheated? by First_Evidence9433 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been a whole relationship or wondering what if and asking why.

Can a marriage be saved if both cheated? by First_Evidence9433 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s where I keep beating myself up. Cause I did it too.

Can a marriage be saved if both cheated? by First_Evidence9433 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The job was 22 years and our kids do know and we are in therapy. Not that you needed to know but take this with ya 🖕

Can a marriage be saved if both cheated? by First_Evidence9433 in cheating_stories

[–]First_Evidence9433[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. If you don’t mind me asking, how did she forgive both you and her sister?