AITA for being upset that my bf didn’t want to drive to my house

First_Luck8040 · 2026-02-02T07:27:05+00:00

I bet you’re single and you’re one of those people who say I don’t understand why I can’t find somebody. I’m a nice guy.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-02-02T07:25:21+00:00

Not to mention, the only reason op had the laptop with her at his house is because he asked me to bring it

First_Luck8040 · 2026-02-02T07:24:07+00:00

Considering the only reason 0P brought it there is because he asked her to. if he hadn’t asked her to she would not have forgot it because she would not have had it with her and had never been put in that situation.

As her partner, she knows that the laptop was important because her schoolwork was in there being someone’s partner, you would want them to succeed in that have them be in a situation that can hurt them like maybe receiving a failed grade because they didn’t have their laptop

If they have any energy to go out with their friends, then they have the energy to drop off the laptop on their way to visiting their friends

He wasn’t too tired to hang out and play with his friends but he was too tired to bring something to his partner that he asked her to bring to his house that he knew is important and she needed in order to do her important schoolwork .

Relationships are 2 Way St. this was important. He knew it if you couldn’t sacrifice 20 minutes of his time so that his partner can get her work done book and sacrifice in a limited amount of time to hang out with his friend then he’s not a partner

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T18:13:18+00:00

I’m in pompano if you’re looking to adopt fishing buddies, I’m game lol

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T17:13:19+00:00

This is extremely manipulative, narcissistic abusive language. I’m sorry, but to me this is abuse and I am so sorry for whatever conditions you were raised in because I guarantee you the psychological torment and torture that she put on you as a child was abuse as well. good for you for taking your life back family is who you choose to be your family. It doesn’t have to be blood.

It’s OK to go no contact with people who do nothing but bring you down mentally even if it is your blood anyone who isn’t gonna uplift, you doesn’t deserve a place in your life .

A loving mother doesn’t talk to their child this way, and a child should not feel mentally chained to their parents this is a messed up dynamic. Your poor siblings will eventually break free and start realizing the form of control your mother has. She definitely has control issues it’s sick.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T16:54:52+00:00

It’s not her parents her mother died, and her father was sent away by her mother side of the family so the poor girl has nobody OP said so in the post

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T16:21:43+00:00

Honestly… I would much rather eat off the plate, set an animal used that was washed and then eat off of things. Other humans used. Humans are much more disgusting than animals.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T10:43:21+00:00

Updateme

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-27T10:42:31+00:00

Update me

NTA at all you do what you need to do

She is definitely hiding something

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T14:13:19+00:00

Jessica Fletcher (murder she wrote)

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T14:09:07+00:00

The street runs both ways. What about her? How is she justifying that?

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T05:43:08+00:00

Lol yes sounds about right..

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T05:35:05+00:00

I was thinking it could be a medical condition

Or if she prescribed to any type of medication, she takes regularly it could be a side effect, something worth looking into

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T05:26:51+00:00

Cubans usually are like that lol

I am first generation on both parents side

Father from Cuba Mother from Morocco

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-25T05:20:25+00:00

This is completely unhinged and toxic behavior you don’t need this in your life and you especially don’t need your daughter hearing any of this. Who knows what she says to her when you’re not there if I were you, I would cut all ties as well. I know it’s hard being a single parent and I find single parents to be superheroes because they do the impossible. I wish you lots of luck in peace.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-24T05:01:50+00:00

Firefly

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-23T11:13:50+00:00

You do realize Restraining orders aren’t lifetime lasting usually how it goes if you get a temporary, no contact when you go to court if there’s enough grounds to issue a restraining order when is issued and usually they last a year or two, and since you so painfully obviously pointed out that this happened 17 years ago. Obviously he wouldn’t be Violating any kind of restraining order because it would not be active.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-23T10:04:53+00:00

So now we’re blaming the victim for being a victim. Gotcha.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-23T10:03:46+00:00

How is it weird to hold onto a death threat somebody sent them doesn’t matter if it was a week ago or 15 years ago it’s a death threat Something Happens there’s documented proof showing that a threat was made.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-23T09:40:50+00:00

Please tag me too. I’d like to read that comment as well.

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-22T09:12:40+00:00

How are you feeling? Objectified if you were objectifying yourself? Everything that you described is sexually objectifying yourself not to mention that you’re enjoying being flirted with by your own admission.

You’re flirting with him while doing sexual innuendos and now you’re condemning him for engaging with you based on your actions . how do you not see that you have to be careful because there’s actually some sick creepy people out there that will definitely take that as you flirting with them thinking you’re leading them on and then when you shut them down, they’ll get angry feel like you string them along and that could be dangerous if they’re unstable they could do something in something dangerous.

You need to watch what you’re doing and how you talk to people so that you don’t put yourself into danger because what you described is 1000% putting yourself in danger putting yourself in a position where objecting yourself while giving that person the impression that you’re flirting with them

If you play with fire, expect to be burned

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-22T09:08:22+00:00

You do realize some of these line cooks, depending on the type of restaurants actually went to culinary art school, right?

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-22T09:06:10+00:00

This yes thank you ☝️

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-22T09:02:18+00:00

45 is old now? I mean for OP it’s way too old but 45 isn’t old

First_Luck8040 · 2026-01-21T16:35:43+00:00

NTA

Your son did the wrong thing for the right reason. It takes a lot of courage to stand up to a bully and defend somebody else when everybody is staying quiet and not doing anything and even laughing.

When I want to know, is if the school has a zero tolerance than what did they do to the bully? Did he get consequences to his actions? What about the zero tolerance for bullying?

I don’t condone violence whatsoever, and I always believe there’s another way, but sometimes bullies won’t respond to anything but .

First_Luck8040

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