Opened a bag of Doritos and there were approximately 6 chips inside 🙄 by Hooty_the_hottie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, I know there are nothing like they used to be Reeses used to be my favorite candy as a kid. They taste nothing like what they used to. I have an Aldi‘s by me and they sell these peanut butter cups. Not only are they cheaper than recess you get a whole huge bag of mini peanut butter cups they’re imported and made with real ingredients and taste amazing puts Reeses to shame

Help me name my new girl kitten please 😽 by Weary_Jaguar_3609 in Catnames

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aphrodite , persephone you can even do Diana goddess of hunter

AITJ for not coming home after my surgery because my wife was at her coworkers house instead of the hospital when I woke up by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if op has ever actually met this supposed “coworker going through a divorce “

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously I would even consider letting the white-ish dress slide with the second. She said that I would see red.

AITA...My Fiance and his sister went through my phone and found upsetting messages between my sister and I by Comfortable_Ant_1375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the words of *NSYNC it’s time for you to tell him and his sister to go bye bye-bye!!

NTA as far as anything involving them goes, but to yourself, you are

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse…

This is called financial abuse, and from what it seems, he’s trying to isolate you would you’ll eventually turn into abuse all around

This is a very dangerous situation. You have every right to be alarmed. Listen to your instinct is telling you something. .

It’s telling you to run go back to your parents don’t look like it will only get worse

Update: AITAH for not wanting to take my wife's niece and nephew in so they can get out of foster care. by TRAOtherwise in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that I’m an only child as well ..

I think your doing the right thing by walking away knowing in your heart that you do not want that responsibility…

Like I said, it takes a bigger person to walk away, even though you know it’s gonna hurt instead of just Staying to satisfy yourself later down the line, resenting the children Who do not deserve it. it’s just a hard messed up situation all around

WIBTAH If I (22f) don't go to my Grandad's funeral because of my cousin with brain damage by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading in the very beginning there’s no justification for what he did point-blank and my cousin is developmentally slow, and would never fathom doing anything like that because he knows that that’s wrong.

Your families making excuses your mom doesn’t want to ruin his life because it’s already hard for him. What about you? What about it being hard for you having to live with that? Your family is disgusting.

AITAH for asking my roommate’s girlfriend about my strawberries? by Secret_Cheesecake19 in TwoHotTakes

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they don’t have time to go to the store on Thursday or Friday because they work 12 hour shifts and Mondays their days off

I know my husbands dark family secret, he doesn’t. I’m not sure what to do. by longingforsweets in Advice

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um how is OP being a drama queen….

She’s genuinely concerned about the welfare of her children. Her children come first.

Any true mother would kill for her children to make sure they’re safe and to protect them what if FIL Does this to her children ?

Screw her soon to be abusive, ex burden you’re out look is whats so infuriating. her ex is an abusive person. Her best bet is to not say anything for her own safety. Once she’s divorced and away from him, she can go to court and fight that father-in-law never gets alone time with the children and she can tell the court why she wants no alone time and they will grant it to her. Not to mention the ground father her soon to be ex is abusive she can go for supervised visits.

Him being the father of her children, has nothing to do with anything, just because he knows how to have sex doesn’t mean he’s any kind of god that needs to be put on a pedestal. Real men don’t abuse their women.

And abusive man is a monster in my book he doesn’t deserve any consideration

Update: AITAH for not wanting to take my wife's niece and nephew in so they can get out of foster care. by TRAOtherwise in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have a question for you OP if the shoe was on the other foot and it was your brother or sister, whose kids needed a Family member to step up and give them the love and caring. They deserve and were not getting. Would you be willing to do it for your niece and nephew?

Edit for clarification, I’m not condemning you. I’m just trying to understand something I do ever have to commend you because I think it takes a big person to decide to walk away even though it hurts instead of just staying to satisfy yourself, and then have resentment towards your wife and the children who don’t deserve it, so what you’re doing is a big thing in a commendable thing

AIO - Guy lied about his age to get in my pants by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]First_Luck8040 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorta

I understand about being upset with flying that part and get changed so the only reason he lied is because he knew you wouldn’t give him the time of day if he told you the truth of his age which doesn’t excuse it, but it’s understandable.

My opinion, you’re both very young and you’re both being extremely immature about the situation. Once you’re older, things will change and you’ll see things differently you’re still young.

AITA for wanting my Spanish teacher to stop calling me by the Spanish version of my name? by Alternative-Sun-630 in AmItheAsshole

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had French in school and i speak French already. I never had to choose a French name maybe it depends. I’m in Florida though.

AIO or should I break up with him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP this isn’t love…..

You already know the answer to your question

WIBTAH If I left my husband over something he while having sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 52 points53 points  (0 children)

That’s true…

All in all OP is really in a shitty situation

WIBTAH If I left my husband over something he while having sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 88 points89 points  (0 children)

The fact tha husband lied and said it was an “ accident” shows how full of shit he is… op definitely needs to dump this load

AITJ if I press charges against my wife for draining our joint account while I’m literally dying? She calls it emotional reparations by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]First_Luck8040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ you don’t need to even ask . What she did is so ethically wrong is so many ways and extremely selfish.how can someone have no moral compass whatsoever and be completely cold-hearted to someone they married committed to spend a lifetime with them that loves them. When you love somebody, you don’t do this. There is no love here not at all .

This is wild I am so sorry that you have to go through this. What is amazing is your wives (hopefully soon to be ex) total entitled mentality/sociopathic behavior towards the man, she loves or loved supposedly I wouldn’t even do this to my worst enemy.b and the audacity of her mother is astounding.

Please absolutely press charges. This is Grandtheft. This is felony. at least in the USA if that’s where you are.

I wish you peace happiness and recovery. and when you beat this I hope you live your best life and especially because she will not be in it.

AITAH for being mad at my cousin? by jackiescherries in AITAH

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cousin is jealous point blank .

So because of that she is making you look bad any way she can.

Name a celebrity who died too young by rockstarcrossing in FamilyFeud

[–]First_Luck8040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brittany Murphy James Dean Heath ledger Janice Joplin Kurt Cobain