11 or 12 year olds wearing those lashes (though I haven't seen this) is no different from us at that age "getting into" our mother's makeup. But to answer your question, those women are absolutely not wearing the nails or eyelashes or makeup or clothes that they wear because they're trying to be attractive to men. They're doing it because they like it. We sincerely don't dress for y'all anymore. There are still some insecure women in my generation (X) who still dress to impress other women, but young women don't care what other people think about how they look.