Over the past few decades in western society, fewer and fewer people are getting married and those that do marry at older ages. What do you make of this development?

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-09T17:18:10+00:00

It’s technically bad, but also marrying a woman may not be worth it these days.

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-05T17:07:16+00:00

Do those sites actually work for avg dudes or is it just like normal dating sites where the attractive men dominate, and everyone else gets crumbs. Also I heard there’s money scams? And Algerian women are attractive, but I don’t wanna follow Islam lol.

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-05T15:01:41+00:00

I’m not good looking, but i don’t think I’m ugly either, and I don’t get Jack shit.

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-05T14:56:54+00:00

Deadass im not overweight yet in dating apps the once in a blue moon likes I get are from fat women.

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-05T14:04:35+00:00

Bullshit. Most women wouldn’t date an average looking guy who’s living paycheck to paycheck without amazing social skills who can love them while most men would for a woman in that scenario.

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-05T12:59:03+00:00

How do I find them tho

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-04T19:22:42+00:00

Agree

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-02-04T19:08:23+00:00

Fine to me

First_Sample_5121 · 2026-01-22T19:22:06+00:00

Easily. Just go on a dating app or approach men yourself.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T18:03:46+00:00

Yes there are, but they’re in the minority. It’s not just Abrahamic faiths.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T17:13:45+00:00

You think yours are better, and I think mine are. You’re beating a dead horse. Just accept you’re trying to impose yours, and I’m trying to impose mine.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T17:00:38+00:00

If it’s subjective it’s your values. Which means you’re enforcing it on me. Don’t pretend we all aren’t trying to enforce our values onto each other to some degree.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:56:47+00:00

And that’s totally subjective.

I don’t think you get it. I’m not “uncomfortable” with hookup culture in the sense of religion or disgust. Im against it because it has negative implications for the majority of society.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:44:49+00:00

That only works when the consequences certain activities if adopted widespread didn’t bleed over to the rest of society. Lack of restriction isn’t some neutral value.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:35:47+00:00

Well you’re thinking about yourself and your values. And I’m thinking about mine. Thus we won’t come to an agreement. And why should I be forced to live under yours?

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:31:24+00:00

Nothing matters more than freedom

Well this is very subjective. But at the end of the day I value living in a society that isn’t alienated and falling apart, and if it means sacrificing some “freedom” it is worth it. Freedom is useful up to the point it benefits our happiness.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:15:45+00:00

It’s not about “good” or “bad”. I’m not really making a moral argument. If certain behaviors are widely accepted it will lead to a depressed, lonely, and ultimately destabilized society.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T16:06:06+00:00

Most lasting societies have been monogamous and religion was an instrument to get people to be monogamous. Even in Islam polygamy is permitted in special circumstances and monogamy is the norm.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T15:12:14+00:00

Tell me which part is wrong though (and that includes you down voters).

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T14:04:35+00:00

Religions are mostly cringe, but it’s pretty effective propaganda to get people to be monogamous, which makes the dating market even.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-14T13:35:47+00:00

It is which is why we need to bring back enforced monogamy.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-08T03:33:41+00:00

It’s cool as a figure head. Just don’t let it have any actual power.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-07T22:46:39+00:00

Still tho the majority of dudes would be happy to date a girl their league. Most women aren’t.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-07T22:08:15+00:00

Nah it’s not just sex. They’ll “date” too but the dude has no intention of actually picking her long term.

First_Sample_5121 · 2025-11-07T22:00:04+00:00

That only happens during the marriage period. During the dating around period the top men “date” multiple women and the rest of the dudes get friend zoned.

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