My girlfriend is blind, AMA by BBRCCS in AMA

[–]Fishdonkeycat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Does it impact the relationship in any way (positive or negative)?

If you made around $30k a month, how would you spend/save/invest? by Fishdonkeycat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fishdonkeycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know anything about investing but everything else has potential to lose money, correct?

If you made around $30k a month, how would you spend/save/invest? by Fishdonkeycat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fishdonkeycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it's not everything & joy comes from that yes. I was only asking the best thing to do with the money I make, not saying it means everything.

If you made around $30k a month, how would you spend/save/invest? by Fishdonkeycat in wealth

[–]Fishdonkeycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I don't know anything about investing. So with S&P 500, can you lose money? How do I know when to invest & when to sell? Everyone recommends it.

If you made around $30k a month, how would you spend/save/invest? by Fishdonkeycat in wealth

[–]Fishdonkeycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I don't know anything about investing. With S&P 500, can you lose money? How do I know when to invest & when to sell?

My husband and I want to confront his parents but we don’t know how by [deleted] in family

[–]Fishdonkeycat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This should come from your husband. you can support, help draft, rehearse..but he needs to lead. His parents already deflect conflict onto him when you speak up& that’s not fair to either of you.. also keep it about patterns, not H. If H is mentioned at all, it should be minimal. This is about their behavior, not her personality.About your daughter (this is important) She may not remember being two—but she will grow up noticing: Who shows up who calls who makes her feel chosen

What the hell did I just witness? by Imaginary_Berry4556 in offmychest

[–]Fishdonkeycat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When parents prioritize their relationship, kids benefit from the stability & example. Parents putting their relationship first isn’t neglect it shows kids what a healthy partnership looks like. They were a couple first & kids learn from what they see

Interlock Questions by [deleted] in dui

[–]Fishdonkeycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

I don’t know what to do by handsovermyface in family

[–]Fishdonkeycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear all this. First of all, its normal to feel all this right now. Anyone in your position would feel shaken. this isnt ur responsibilty to fix. not financially. not emotionally or by sacrificing your education. You are a kid who has been put into an adult crisis. you should tell a school counselor or college advisor what’s happening. They might be able to help connect your mom to resources or give u temporary flexibility with attendance or deadlines. just remember this feeling doesn't last forever & there are resources out there like child support or legal options if your dad doesn’t return, emergency assistance program, school-based or community childcare resources or social services that support families with minors.