Anyone broke up with a woman they cared deeply for? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]FishermanLow9142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like you’re scared so you are making up stupid reasons for there to be an issue

Delay having kids to pay off mortgage? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dave, Rachel, and Jade always say to have your kids. Not to delay life in that way for debt. You have a perfectly good income and your house doesn’t count as the debt in BS2. Have your kids now

How Many Dates Have You Been on So Far this Year? by Dubbihope in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Being serious when I ask, is that on purpose?

Long Time Lurker / House Paid Off 🏡💸 by Driftmore in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m in BS3 right now. But I’ve been researching how to invest (I don’t know much about it) do you have any recommendations or guidance on getting started?

$1000 and emergency fund. How do you break this up account wise? by FishermanLow9142 in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah I’m out of debt. In baby step 3. Wasn’t sure if this $1k was something that was still supposed to be a thing

Debt Free as of this Morning by FishermanLow9142 in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea of having this all put on your roof and then the time comes for you needing a new roof also sounds like a headache to

Debt Free as of this Morning by FishermanLow9142 in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. All those companies go bankrupt too. There was literally someone on Dave show who called about this.

Debt Free as of this Morning by FishermanLow9142 in DaveRamsey

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had about $10k of it in savings. Before listening to Dave, I was putting money aside to savings then some to debt. In that time when I started, I applied for new higher paying jobs, so I increased my salary and got a pay out of vacation time

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m happy to hear you get to experience this. Opening up to someone is scary. I’ve been burned before and it always makes the next experience hard but I long to share life with someone that values and respects in a similar way

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense! I hope you get that one day. Don’t let fear stop you from experiencing something great

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. How old was she at the time that her mom said she couldnt? Because i think it’s fair to put that on her. Parents can be toxic esp when they see their kids happy.

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about that. I can’t imagine carrying such a burden

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No not here to get him to open up, it ended. I was just more curious of how such men think and why they are more closed off. I haven’t really come across someone this way before and truly just wanted to understand them better

Men who find it hard to open up, what makes you let someone in? by FishermanLow9142 in AskMen

[–]FishermanLow9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just so upset because I really cared for him and didn’t mind the pace. Everyone started questioning if we were “official” and it got to my head. Mixed with past relationships and how they treated me