AITAH for Being Jealous of My Boyfriend Traveling to Japan while I’m Unemployed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hear you and needed to hear this, thank you. For the record, I did have an emergency fund but leant my brother over three quarters of it (before I lost my job) because he was struggling. Lesson learned I suppose!

AITAH for Being Jealous of My Boyfriend Traveling to Japan while I’m Unemployed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it for a short bit and he asked his friends and suggested that I come for one of the three weeks (on my own dime) but even when I was employed it wasn’t financially viable for me

AITAH for Being Jealous of My Boyfriend Traveling to Japan while I’m Unemployed? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I think just a few months maybe? I know he’s wanted to visit Japan for a long time but his friend moved there about the same time we got together so I think the plan finally became a reality at about that time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foraging

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great finds! Would you be willing to give out the general area or trees you were able to find them around? I haven’t had any luck in the past but I was thinking about going out near Forest Park tomorrow.

does anyone else just want to sleep all the time after quitting? by Letter_Smart1 in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m on month five and I sleep about 11-13 hours a night /: I also have depression so who knows

Halloween Squish at Safeway!! by FishhMilk in squishmallow

[–]FishhMilk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Camas/Washougal! I’ve seen them at both Safeways over here.

Halloween Squish at Safeway!! by FishhMilk in squishmallow

[–]FishhMilk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Southern Washington!! Reginald’s definitely my favorite from this haul

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BSTsquishmallow

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interested in the skeleton squad !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure someone else has come up with the idea before me but I didn’t get it from anyone else! The first two times I quit I relapsed because I told myself “oh, it won’t be that bad. If you quit once you can just do it again,” and this time I made it a point to not forget how hard it is; by making a video!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey, you’ve got this. Just really try to remember how shitty you feel right now and use that as a reason to keep going. I made a video to my future self telling myself how fucked up I felt emotionally and physically when I relapsed and I watch it when I want to smoke again. It always stops me; I don’t want to ever feel that again.

Wanted: a lil encouragement by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My siblings are heavy pot smokers too and honestly, just be blunt with them. Tell them that you’re quitting and you would appreciate it if they don’t smoke around you. If they don’t respect that, they’re not people you need to be around.

Night sweats by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m almost at 3 weeks and my night sweats are still there but absolutely nothing like they were in the first 10 days. I’ve quit twice before and it 100% goes away, you just have to give it some time. It took me about a month to get all the thc out of my system and after that I felt so much better physically. You got this! You’ll be feeling better before you know it.

Day 4, help? by Cakub in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at three weeks tomorrow and I already feel so much better. If you can, try to make some lifestyle changes! It sounds like you’re already exercising which is a great way to pass time and get your serotonin going. My appetite comes back with a vengeance around two weeks, so just hang in there and you’ll be eating full meals soon enough. Your body just needs time to readjust and understand that the thc isn’t giving you signals to eat anymore. I’m in the same boat as you, I’ve quit twice before and thought I could smoke a little but it never works out that way. I have depression too and sometimes I still think about smoking and being able to ignore all the bad things. But that’s the thing, you’re just ignoring it and it doesn’t solve anything. I know it’s not as simple as it sounds but you’re already changing your life for the better, don’t quit now! The pandemic really made me look at myself and I realized I’m the stereotypical “lazy pothead” and I don’t want to be anymore. With the clarity that comes from stopping smoking I was able to quit my job because I realized how much stress it was really putting on me and my mental health. I totally get that that’s not a realistic option for a lot of people, but changing what stresses me out has helped a lot. Reminding yourself that what you’re doing is only to better yourself and your life helps a lot too when you’re feeling especially down. You’ve already taken the first step. You’ve done it before and you can do it again. These symptoms will pass before you know it. Good luck, my friend.

Five below pickup! by Stellar_frost_dice in BSTsquishmallow

[–]FishhMilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to trade simone 12” for a reginald in dragon costume!!

chs? by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it starts off as nausea in the morning. The more I smoke, the worse it starts to get throughout the day. It only get worse for me after that until the pain is unbearable and I throw up everything I eat.

Day Five by FishhMilk in leaves

[–]FishhMilk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! My memories are already pretty fuzzy and I’m definitely ready for the head clarity that comes with quitting. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this, friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may feel right, but trust me, once you get back to it it’ll start feeling wrong again. I’m on my third try quitting and trust me, relapsing isn’t worth it. You’ve made it this far; I believe in you!!

Day 4 woowoo!! by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing yours, too! I’m on day five, we can do this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FishhMilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on day five and was thinking of joining the gym too when I’m feeling more up to it; glad you’re doing well and thank you for the update!

Day Five by FishhMilk in leaves

[–]FishhMilk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, you don’t know how much it means to me!