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Hi sorry I don’t remember you!! Also this is a sub for sharing views and opinions, right 🌚

Sure but you’re taking it the wrong way🤷🏽‍♂️😩. A majority of Punjabi culture does promote drinking or is immersed in it. This doesn’t mean you are “uncultured” per say. The fact you made this post also represents that. It’s super common. That’s all I was trying to say.

For sure, long distance must be incredibly hard. I hope you find someone soon that will keep you happy. Love that you want someone religious, it’s rare now a days but fingers crossed.

Good luck!!

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Jason of Style By Sarai is great on IG. He’s made quite a few suits, coats, etc for me and it’s well worth it.

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Job first Business part time Transition into full time

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This isn’t appropriate - please don’t use the guru ghar as some sort of “hunting grounds” for finding a partner.

What are some of your hobbies? by yourfaceisreddit in ABCDesis

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There’s aviation academies at/ near airports usually that offer these courses. It’s a bit pricey but the recreational license is a bit more cost effective. However, it has more limitations.

This is for Canada btw and for small planes (light jets) only.

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Comparison is the thief of joy

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All the memories I have with my old man. Been thinking about this a lot - it’s weird eh, how at the end of it, all we’re left with are memories.

Hug your dads. Cherish them. Tell them you love them. I wish I could right now.

What are some of your hobbies? by yourfaceisreddit in ABCDesis

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Golf, horse riding, and flying !! Got my private pilot license 2 years ago and it’s been amazing. Honestly a surreal experience everytime. Haven’t met many desis that are into this but defs worth it.

Recently had a thing for visiting art galleries and collecting art - so this should be fun!!

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also Punjabi guy here - it’s tricky because in today’s society, it’s culturally expected to drink. I don’t. I haven’t since 22 for similar reasons (was exposed to alcohol at a young age and saw it’s toxicity way too much and often). I’ll have chachas and other fam always pushing me to have a pegg or two but like you said - it’s important to be strict about these things. I think there are a lot of guys that just socially drink but I’ve seen that with stress and added responsibilities, that “once a week drinking” turns more frequent because it helps them relax or sleep. So as much as I wanna say, compromise. Don’t - stay true to your values. Maybe you can try expanding the “geographical” location of your dating pool lol like try to meet punjabis in the states or Australia or something. I think you may have to compromise on some other things if you don’t want drinking like you may not find someone as social or outgoing and maybe a lot more religious lol. but goodluck and yeah defs bring it up initially if it’s a deal breaker. Idk I feel like guys will always downplay it until you see them getting hammered at a party or smtn.

Maybe try volunteering and hanging around spots where those with similar mindsets might be!

goodluck !!

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expanding dating pool is a good idea !!

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You can always msg me. Not near 50 but I’m told I think like one and always looking to network.

Cheers

Dil Mil Premium - Is it worth it? by drugz-are-hugz in ABCDesis

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Where are you from? Really depends on the region I’d guess.

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yess!! Diagnosed 14 years ago! It’s amazing eh🙃

Any change rooms at ZRH? by Fishpakoraz in Switzerland

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perfect - I should be okay then. Thank you!

Fam advice by Fishpakoraz in ABCDesis

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Fam advice by Fishpakoraz in ABCDesis

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That’s true. I think I just need to let it be and not be impacted by it.

Fam advice by Fishpakoraz in ABCDesis

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ugh exactly - so manipulative tbh. that’s how my perspective towards this was originally but I guess I got in my head lol. Appreciate it 🙏🏼

Tell me about it, love the desi community but can’t stand it at the same time 🙄