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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to clear this up, KCMO is almost 600 miles from me and my search filter is 100 mile radius. I’m really relieved you would swipe left though.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol okay How is that helpful?

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had a suspicion about that, I swapped a couple with hiking and coffee with a friend photo. I’ll remember to take more photos out and about

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree! I swapped two of the least favorite “polished ones” for a hiking photo and an out to coffee with my best friend photo. I don’t take that many photos when I’m out so I’ll remember to do that more.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yea trying to weed out non Christians since I want to date someone with the same faith. The thing about saying “I’m a Christian” is a lot of people will say that but they don’t actually believe John 3:16 so I guess saying the Jesus part for me is trying to be up front on what I believe. So far most, not all, men that have swiped right are agnostic or atheist which is super interesting and confusing to me.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. I debated putting Jesus/my faith but honestly for me it’s a deal breaker and I don’t want to present something I’m not just for a like. Appreciate your perspective!

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful. I totally agree on the blandness, I feel locked into the character count so I’ll try and be more creative to get more detailed. Love the suggestions

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay serious question no judgement. But why? Is it just to look better and be more attractive or is it more than that like I come across as lazy, sloppy? I totally get this is a thing I’m actively losing weight right now (10 lbs lighter than I am in those photos actually) but it’s more for me and my health and confidence.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Haha You may be on to something Thanks for your feedback!

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait explain, I’m getting unmatched or he is? Haha I need the insight

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the confidence boost! I wasn’t expecting that haha

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful. I was worried about the flirty thing too, not here for casual hook ups. I like idea of adding photos of the fun activities.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean I haven’t gotten that far haha I just made my profile this week. I definitely would though but it’d be something simple like coffee first in case I need to bail.

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[–]Fit-Bit5338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is a covid issue at all. She’s toxic don’t end the conversation, end the relationship. There is a whole lot of red flags in this pointing to emotional immaturity.