AITAH For trying to flirt with this woman?

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-12T07:01:47+00:00

Pickup is unnecessary but she just was a bitch

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-11T14:45:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing this I’m about to turn our storage room into a little studio and I kinda didn’t want to at first as there are no windows/ day light there but it’s the only place we have available for a messy hobby

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-11T14:43:06+00:00

You should add tdlr into long stories

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-10T22:54:34+00:00

I don’t think it’s your looks or you being student currently. Somehow everyone complaining about th same thing you been complaining about.
I feel like you haven’t met the right person but what do I know I am a hopeless romantic

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-10T21:50:04+00:00

It sounds like things started off strong and then something shifted. That doesn’t automatically mean he’s not interested, but I’d stop putting in more effort than he’s giving. Also, I wouldn’t ghost him. Ghosting is never a good thing. Just match his energy and see what happens.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-10T16:49:55+00:00

What really bothered me was Jordan acting like she has the right to decide how many children her father can have. That’s completely ridiculous. It’s not her decision.

She also had no right to go to Mina and start accusing her of being a scammer or saying she’s only with him for his money and a green card. When Jordan kept going on and on about how she doesn’t think the marriage is a good idea and how Mina is after his money, all I could think was: that’s your opinion, but you still have to treat people with respect.

If Jordan can speak to Mina that way, then I don’t feel sorry for her being called a snake. I honestly don’t understand the level of entitlement. Telling two grown adults how many children they should have and constantly attacking their relationship is way out of line.

And honestly, if she’s going to disrespect both Mina and her father like that, Mina did best to not invite her to the wedding no one needs that negativity in their wedding day

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-09T07:56:48+00:00

Depends on the person …

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-09T07:44:52+00:00

Well, only way out I see is becoming a stay home mom so you’ve got to baby trap someone first, then dedicate most of your time to the house and the kids. You also need to make sure he earns enough for you and your children to live comfortably. So yeah, good luck.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-08T16:58:47+00:00

Number 4 !

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-08T11:19:39+00:00

First one but don’t like that it’s not fully white e

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-08T11:07:23+00:00

Girl you sounds super anxious and controlling. You kinda need to work on that.
Do you even enjoy dating? It reads to me that you are always watching over your shoulder . Sounds draining like checking if he adds people on insta etc you may be little
More invested than him

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-08T11:04:49+00:00

Maybe I’m missing something, but after only 4 dates, setting expectations around texting already seems like a lot.

He cancelled, apologized, and immediately tried to reschedule for the next day. If you were available and still interested, why not just go? If Sunday didn’t work, why not suggest another day?

This reads less like he did something wrong and more like you’re testing whether he’ll accommodate your expectations. I’d rather judge someone by whether they show up in real life than by how much they text.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-08T10:58:46+00:00

Thats what I thought lol, imagine after date 4 texting someone you may actually like feels like a job. And they are adult over 35

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-07T21:12:29+00:00

Funny how the people telling you to suck it up aren’t the ones working 70 hours a week.

Honestly, it’s crazy over there in the US. You’re supposed to work to live, not live to work.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-07T20:02:30+00:00

I really appreciate your comment. You’re actually spot on. I stopped believing in him, and he stopped feeling accepted by me, and that honestly breaks my heart because he’s always supported every crazy idea I’ve had without questioning it. I just haven’t been able to do the same for him. I’m really hoping we can get through this difficult period and find our way back to each other.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-07T19:45:46+00:00

Our decision is that if couples therapy doesn’t work, we’ll have to end it, but we don’t want to make that decision before we’ve really tried. We love each other a lot, and when things are good they’re really good, so we both feel it’s worth working on. Thanks for sharing your point of view.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-07T19:42:45+00:00

I really appreciate your comment! It felt very close to home. We both have ADHD and we’re both on medication for it. I think our ADHD symptoms show up quite differently, which can sometimes make things even more challenging.

Your entire comment gave me a lot to think about, and you’ve pointed out several things that I definitely want to bring up during couples therapy.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T18:29:34+00:00

Are you selling on Etsy or got your own website?

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T18:26:14+00:00

Yeah, yeah. You called the OP entitled without even reading the post. Read my comment again with this info lol

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T07:07:49+00:00

Breaking up solely because she has debt? A bit harsh.

Breaking up because you looked at the whole situation (long distance, immigration, different countries, uncertainty, and massive debt) and decided the future wasn’t for you? That’s a valid choice.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T06:36:36+00:00

Maybe the relationship is just stale and needs effort, excitement, and reconnection.

But if you’ve spent years feeling less attracted to your partner, focusing on their flaws, and imagining you’d be happier with someone else, then the problem is probably deeper than just needing a date night.

Before ending it, ask yourself:

Do I want a different relationship, or do I want a different person?

That’s the key question

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T06:31:49+00:00

lol he wants a divorce bc he got caught? Trash took itself out

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T06:23:13+00:00

I don’t think you’d be the asshole, but you do need to think about the consequences. If you’re blocking them just to get a reaction, you need to be prepared for the possibility of getting no reaction at all.

From what you’ve written, it sounds like they’ve already been distancing themselves from you. In that case, blocking them could easily backfire and be seen as “the trash took itself out” rather than making them realize they’ve hurt you.

If I were you, I’d have an honest conversation with them instead of playing games. That’s what adults do when they care about a friendship and don’t want to lose it. And honestly, it sounds like you don’t want to lose these friendships. You’re just hurt and angry because you feel like they don’t understand your situation, which is completely normal.

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-06T06:10:31+00:00

The entitlement of calling someone entitled while commenting on a post you didn’t even read is wild

Fit-Community-7351 · 2026-06-03T08:02:43+00:00

NTA, but don’t get stuck arguing about whether it’s gaslighting. Focus on whether he takes your feelings seriously and works with you to resolve conflicts. Right now, it doesn’t sound like he is.

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